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As a guy I feel that women only ever seem to date jerks. Not all women do this but most. It seems that they date jerks then complain about it. So women I have to know if you think every guy out there is a jerk who is only after sex. By the way I am by no means a jerk or a nice guy. I've been called both
| All men are jerks | 35 | |
| I think most guys are jerks and nice ones are hard to find | 76 | |
| I overlook nice guys and thus date jerks | 22 | |
| I don't date people | 21 |
I think a lot of women are kind of stupid. They always complain about what a jerk their boyfriends are. This is stupid for two reasons. 1. If he's a jerk and treats you like garbage, complaining about it won't change anything. Just dump him and get it over with. 2. They seem to always go for the jerks.
Girls always say nice guys are so hard to find, when in reality they are everywhere. They are the guys you stay in the friend zone with. I don't understand my gender.
It shows how vain women can be. They go for the attractive and dumb guys, get messed around and then say 'all guys are jerks!'. But in reality they have a sweet and caring nerdy friend in the corner wishing he could be with her.
Funny, because probably every female has dumped or totally over-looked a "Nice Guy" at least once in her life.
No, I don't think all men are jerks nor do I believe the majority of men out there are jerks.
Perhaps it's the 'woe is me' attitude? Or thinking that you're 'better' than someone else just because you feel you're less of a jerk than them? Or waiting around for soemone to realize how much of a 'non-jerk' you are, when perhaps you're not?
Don't read me wrong, I like you. I'm not trying to insult you at all. It's just, I have a friend who thinks he's this super nice guy, and has horrible luck with women. TBH, it has nothing to do with him not being a
'jerk', it's that he harps on it and tries to use it as an advantage, and fact is, he IS a jerk in a lot of ways. Plus he's not very good looking, so that doesn't help.
Most men are inconsiderate jerks just looking to get laid. I know a few men who know how to treat their women and I have dated maybe 2 men who were non-jerks but for the most part, they're all self centered dicks.
I think a lot of Jerks wear the mask of "nice" guy, and when they feel they've won the girl, they show their true self, except the girl thinks its just a phase, the nice guy is still there and so she tries to find it again. That's why i think girls stay with jerks for a long time , they still hope the jerk will turn back to what he was first, they didn't realize it was all an act until much later.
Some women just like a challenge, and nice guys are no a challenge. Many women are used to being hurt and equate it with happiness/love/how a relationship is suppossed to be etc. A stable relationship can be seen as boring by some women, and some women do not think that they deserve any better. Sometimes I think it is just being addicted to pain and the rush that an unstable relationship can bring.
im not all bout looks but if ur guna date someone u need to b atracted to them... i rather b friende first b4 dating a guy hehe!
i love nerds hehe... they r smart n nice... and many r pretty nice looking... i got a computer wiz fiance and he is so hot!... i think when a guy talks smart it sorta turns me on... idk guess im unique!
All men are defiantly not jerks- many of them seem to be, but i know many amazing guys who are the farthest thing from jerks possible.
naaawww... well i don't think all guys are jerks and thoses woman who say that mostly want a perfect man that isn't real and they just want the guy they go out with to be the one in their head. quite a few people i know have been out with real jerks that just wanted to get them into bed or just wanted to spend the whole time talking about themselves. but i don't think all guys are jerks. their are some really nice ones out there and i'm sure you don't mean to be a jerk and if you did why? lol all people are different so it's hard to say if someones a real jerk or not.
ok where i am the jerks call the shots and the nice guys well... you can think through that .... but the nice guys i like just really hard to find :( we need moore nice guys :(:(:(
GO NICE GUYS LOL :)
I'll admit I don't like guys that are super nice. It makes me suspicious. I'm not saying I like assholes but a good NORMAL guy is what I want.
Most relationships with jerks are like this: Boyfriend does something girlfriend doesn't like. Instead of telling him the girlfriend keeps quiet because she doesn't want to be a nag. 2 months later girlfriend blows up in anger. Boyfriend is confused about why she's angry because she didn't complain at all for two months. Boyfriend is then labeled a jerk. That story works vice versa when the guy locks up his feelings and then lets them all out at once. The point is... communication is important.
HAHA you're basically asking who is sexist. the funny thing about this is, girls usually just want assholes as partners. they "friendzone" the guy that is nice and actually treats them like they deserved to be treated. it's bullshit and girls won't admit that obvious fact.
We're ok people until a female's asshole partner dumps them or cheats on them, then all males are assholes for the females deciding to be with an asshole instead of looking for a nice guy.
I think most men are pretty great, but a few are egotistical and ignorant - they make the good ones look even better.
Nice guys are very hard to find. It seems most guys are just looking for an easy piece of tail and then move on to the next one once they've gotten it.
Not all guys are jerks. Not all women are angels. We are totally different species. Women may think that their boyfriend is a jerk because he wants to hang with friends instead, or maybe you wanted some flowers but he didn't get you any cus he couldn't read your mind. Maybe most women put too much thought into the perfect guy and can't understand why this cute thug just won't change for her. Its hard to understand sometimes. And like some have said, the nerd in the corner is just longing to love her how she wants and possibly deserves. Damn it, I love nerds!! Ladies, he may not be the hottest thing you ever saw but he will treat you with respect, most likely. I'm getting aggravated. maybe us women are the jerks for unrealalistically looking for mr perfect when he doesn't exist. We try to change men into people they aren't to satisfy ourselves. Maybe we should knock it off and accept the men for what they are. Don't like it? On to the next then. Or hook up with a chick :)
I hold humor and intelligence above hotness ^_^ Geek guys are awesome to date and most all of them are "nice guys," (unless you can't pick up on sarcasm and think they're being jerks :P) Most girls go for cheating asshole jock pretty boys and thats okay with me!
That is just totally sexist and it makes us nice guys look bad. Yeah some men are total jerks, but not all men are like that. Not every one is the same, you just need to find the right guy.
Actually if you read the story then you'd know that I'm a guy. Also I addressed your concern and stated that not all men are jerks, only some. Seriously read the story.
I gave women the benefit of the doubt by saying that not all of them date jerks, but most do.
Many women love jerks. Its the part of the man that they can not control that gets them excited. A man who is not a jerk is more reasonable and is seen as weak. Also in the back of many womens minds they feel that they do not deserve to be treated as good as a "good-guy" will treat them....certainly they can not return the treatment.
that explains why most dads are complete jerks,I had a patheic father myself,which i
prefer not to talk about it on this site,which yes all men are a**holes.