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Ok this question goes out to the girls.
When you get in a relationship, one of the boy's frends usually gets close to you and you start talking a lot. So do you really think when you tell him something he won't go back and tell his buddy or do you do it on purpose, knowing he will talk? (Note 'Something' in this case refers to something bad your bf did)
| Yes, I do it on purpose | 32 | |
| No, I thought he kept it to himself | 25 |
yeah its just like when guys are embarrassed at the size of their wieners and the chick is like "its okay i wont tell anyone" and she goes and tells all of her girlfriends how tiny it is and how horrible the guy is in bed.... yeah i can see how it could go both ways.
I don't talk to them unless I want the guy to know. Which normally I don't talk, if I can't say it to his face why tell his friend?
It depends on what you're talking about.
And frankly if you're going to be talking about your boyfriend behind his back you should consider the following...
What happens in the bedroom is between the two of you and no one else (unless you're into polyamory of course)
And if you do talk about him behind his back you should compliment him but not divulge things that he wants to keep private.
of course the same should go for the men too.
Ever heard the phrase "bros before hos?"
It's a bit crass, but it's mostly true. Chances are if you tell me something I think my friend (your bf) should know, I'll tell him if it pertains to him. If it's something personal not relating to him, I'll keep my mouth shut.
yeah it does go both ways, most things you tell a girl she will almost defintely tell at least one of her close friends. It's a known fact
I hung around a small group when I was younger and everybody knew everyone else's business anyway.