Girls: do you make the first move

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Let's say that there's this guy that a girl has a crush on.I've noticed that a lot of women choose to wait until the guy asks them out. They act like they can't ask them out, as if there's some rule that bounds them not to. I would understand a normal 20th century girl, but this is the 21st century. Why can't girls ask out men?

I'm girl and I don't ask guys out 49
I'm a girl and I usually make the first move 31
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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago | pl

    Penis + vagina = baby

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Fear of Rejection + Social Awkwardness = Not asking men out

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  • Yumazing
    12 years ago

    If I like the guy enough, I'll definitely ask them out. Guys don't like rejection either.

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    As a guy, this has always confused me. Both guys and girls are petrified of rejection, but only guys are expected to risk it, and some girls even have the cheek to complain if a guy won't make the first move. Damn you, double standards!

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    I want to but I have a lot of social awkwardness.

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  • GinnyWeasley
    12 years ago

    shy+ not feeling good enough= no freakin way

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  • XxKatiexX
    12 years ago

    I don't want to be rejected.

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  • bananaface
    12 years ago

    I don't like the idea of being rejected.

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  • Cheet0
    7 years ago

    As a guy, I wish more would...

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  • youareanidiot
    8 years ago

    I'm a guy and EVERYONE SHUT UP!!! If you like them you should tell them! I've gotten rejected a few times and it's not that bad. But you won't be able to move on with your life until you ask, so do it!

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  • milkymum
    12 years ago

    asking is easy cos its eiither yes or no but yes if theres a fuck in it

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  • troubledmind
    12 years ago

    i think that it is a mans place to make the first move

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    • Aleks85
      12 years ago

      I think it's a woman's place to make the first move.

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  • ~|*~Starr~*|~
    12 years ago

    I just perfer they should

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  • theytookthisone
    12 years ago

    Well if I like them more then I make the first move

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It depends on the guy. If he seems
    Like a nice enough guy I go for it.

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    • peterr
      10 years ago

      That is exactly right!

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  • skyeracrystal28
    12 years ago

    I'm kind of traditional. I think the boy should make the first move and also pay for the date.

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    • Aleks85
      12 years ago

      i aint payin for shit, I wouldn't let you eat the chip off my shoulder.

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  • pandabear1209
    12 years ago

    I never ask a guy out but that's coz I can get guys I like to ask me out while making them think its all their idea ;)

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