Girls: do you actually find guys creepy when they talk to you?

Girls I see on places like facebook and when I'm sitting around studying and can't help but overhear conversations always seem to refer to guys as 'creepy' or 'creepers' for not really do much more than showing interest in them or striking up a conversation at random.

Is this just something you guys say and don't usually mean, or do you actually find guys creepy when they show interest in you? If yes, what exactly is it that makes a guy a creeper?

Other (comment) 6
No, I never say that about them. 18
I call them creepers to my friends, but it is a meaningless word. 12
Depends on the scenario 86
Yeah, guys that talk to me are always creepy. 8
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  • diddlyo

    I think it mostly has something to do with pride. Bitches love attention and referring to men as creepers gives them the audacity to overexaggerate the attention they recieve. Either they are genuinely creeped out by the person (could be anything from looks, age, how they were approached, what theyve heard about them to where they stand), are insecure with themselves, belittling others to gloat and have a sense belonging, or are just flat out uninspired and cant think of anything else to talk about.
    Kind of like bragging almost, in a very discreet, indirect way so they don't come across as "full of themselves."
    Its like a guy being spoken to by a girl and immediately he'll think "she wants me so bad." might not always be the case but these are just little things i think people are way in over their heads in(wording?). By talking all this shit, I'm speaking from personal experience and I am not generalizing the girl and boy species.

    but maybe it's just me. lawlz. good luck kind sir.

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    • NeuroNeptunian

      A lot of these women are my friends, and they often end up with the biggest douchebags ever.
      A lot of them ask me for relationship advice, and what I have read amongst the posts here pretty much sums up what I tell them.

      Sad, u kno?

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    • Alison89

      I kind of see what you mean. I think a lot of girls will talk about a guy and not want to seem full of themselves or act like they like it that a guy talked to them, so they say a guy is creepy so they can talk about it. Not sure if that makes any sense.

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    • bananaface

      I agree:) Couldn't have said it better myself!

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  • The sad thing about this poll/question is the truth behind it. Many girls, especially good looking ones or the ones that think they are good looking, will automatically categorize a guy as "creepy" just for going out of his way to talk to them, in terms of a friendly chat or whatever. Or automatically assume this guy looks at them as a piece of "meat".

    Its the reason behind why relationships or meeting someone is so difficult this day and age. The last thing men want, esp good looking ones, are to be considered creepy or a weirdo. But society has this massive ideal that you have to be married to be considered "whole" so men are almost forced to put themselves out there. Why the hell should I put myself out there to make a fool out of myself for no reason or risk the chance of being called "creepy", why? for trying to initiate conversation?? That makes me creepy? It is creepy for members of either sex to get a very deliberate cold shoulder or brush off and then CONTINUE trying to pursue or talk to someone, but in this day and age your considered "creepy" even before that happens.

    I say the hell with it. I would rather keep to myself then run the very real chance of being called "creepy" or making a fool out of myself just for trying to be friendly or talking to someone. No thank you.

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    • bananaface

      Yeah, I hate how a lot of girls I know are labelling guys as "creeps" or "perverts" for saying hello:/ I just don't see the connection:L I only find guys creepy if they act in a creepy way, like inappropriate staring/conversation, etc...

      And although it's harsh, sometimes a guy just looks creepy:/ We can't help judging them, it's like instinct!

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      • chewy

        They are probably insecure.

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    • NeuroNeptunian

      My husband was just like that. He was considered creepy by women. Really, he is a loyal, loving, hard-working guy who exemplifies what many women I know *say* they want. Yet no woman would give him a chance because he was "creepy". I thought this was foolish and it made it even more tempting for me to get to know him. He comes off as creepy to other women but he treats me like a queen.

      Sucks for you, bitches.

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    • BuffaloBillsFan89

      Well said. Im a quiet, but pretty good looking guy and I have to deal with the same stuff...I generally consider myself a good person and its hard to talk with girls my age (22) nowadays because so many of them are immature. I blame justin bieber for ruining this great country lol..sorry I'm ruggedly good looking and not some little girly-boy

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  • VsegdaTemnata

    It becomes creepy when we show little interest in THEM and they continue to try to talk to us, especially when they ask strange questions. The creepiness is doubled when they are ugly. Sad, but true.

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    • bananaface

      Haha, so true:L I once had an experience like that...disturbing to say the leastD:!

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  • disthing

    Guys: Do you find girls creepy when they talk to you?

    Response: No, they're only talking. As long as they don't say anything weird it's just being friendly right?

    Girls: Do you find guys creepy when they talk to you?

    Response: Oh my god yes, why does every guy want to stalk or harass me? I just want peace without some old guy hitting on me!

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    • regisphilbin

      +1

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  • wigsplitz

    Yes, it's creepy. I was actually seriously considering buying a Muslim-style niqab and stuff. I was actually going to make a poll about it to see what others might think, if it would be too controversial or wierd or if it would bring me too much negative attention. I wanted to get perspectives from women who do wear them in the US, and what they go through, bad or good. But, I seriously do want to wear that stuff in public. I just want men to leave me alone and not look at me like that, I hate beeing leered at all the time.

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    • This post is hilarious just because of the contradiction in it. This person is considering buying a muslim face mask to cover herself because she HATES being leered at, YET if you go to her profile picture its a very provocative picture of her wearing lingerie or what appears to be lingerie that shows not only her face but ample cleavage....

      BUT nobody better leer at her, she hates it.

      Of course once she reads my post she will change the picture, but it doesnt matter it was still up there at the time I typed this.

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      • wigsplitz

        You're an idiot. There's times I want to be looked at and times I don't. Fool. Perhaps I want to go to the grocery store in peace, or walk down the street without being bothered. If anyone's leering at my profile pic, then I don't know about it, so it doesn't affect me. I like that picture.

        Notice in my post, I said PUBLIC places. I don't know any of you here, I'll never see any of you in real life, I don't care if anyone leers at my pic....go for it.

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        • laxman209

          So what are your status on relationships?
          Honestly, how can you get into an relationship if you don't like being looked at In Public? Are you the one to ask them out. And how does It make you feel when your "Partner" looks at you in Public?

          There Is no point In having a women; If you can't look at them. Do they need a blindfold when you both kiss?

          Looks are not Important, But every Relationship comes from Someone Ending up Looking at you, If they don't then You're a nobody.

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          • wigsplitz

            I'm married, dumbass. I don't care if my husband looks at me. I care about being able to walk around in public where I please without being bothered.

            Just when you think people can't get any dumber......

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            • You sound like you are one hell of a catch. Calling everyone a dumbass, an idiot or a fool.

              Your husband is one lucky guy let me tell you.

              Its women like you that give the normal ones a bad name.

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    • chicken471bologna

      Maybe you should stop dressing like a slut.

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      • wigsplitz

        I don't. In public, anyway. Not in the least.

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  • someonenotkelly

    I dont call a guy a creep unless he really is being one, but I know lots of girls who would just call a guy a creep in front of their 'friends' just to show off that they are getting 'unwanted' attention. So guys, dont worry about it, if a girl calls you a creep, either youve acted creepily or shes a turd and you probably dont wanna be with her anyway.

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  • Foxyroxyxo

    It depeneds sometimes if the guy is older or looks creepy the girls may just think hes a creep.

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  • 123Random

    Im intrigued by this poll, although I can understand why some women label me as creepy, my attempts at talking to them always end with me doing something weird as my nervousness rises and nothing happens.
    Oh well lol

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  • rin

    If I do call a guy creepy it is because they are. Just like a guy calls a girl a bitch if she is.

    When I worked in a grocery store some of the guy customers were creeps. This one guy always came in and would stare at me while I rang him out, then he'd stand by the door and just stare at me and smile like he was enjoying making me feel uncomfortable. not to mention I was 16 and he was 40ish.

    Another guy who was also in his 40's stuck his hand out for me to shake it, not thinking much of it I shook his hand and he wouldn't let go. Then he came back ten minutes later just to see me. This other guy use to come in and shake the girls' hands in the store and kiss/slobber over their hand than he wouldn't let their hand go.

    Another time this old man who was a regular came up to the courtesy desk and gave me a small paper bag. He told me to give it to Ashley and to tell her to suck on those real good. (and something else weird but I forgot what he said). So after he left I opened the bag and there was a package of 2 marshmellow chocolate balls.

    You guys don't get treated like this every damn day so the least you can do is let us call you a creep.

    ;)

    I'd like for just one day to be able to take a jog outside by myself without someone honking at me or staring at me or stopping their car to see if I need a ride when I'm going in the opposite direction.

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    • Not gonna lie that jogging part sounds like it would rule. I'm a guy and I love things that acknowledge how good I look. Might just be my massive ego talking though.

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      • rin

        Well I guess I over exaggerated. I was only talking about old guys that hit on young girls and nasty perverts who are rude.

        A creep to me is someone who makes you feel uncomfortable.

        If the guy is normal it has to be b/c he isn't good looking that makes some girls call them that.. maybe if the girl isn't interested or has a boyfriend she'll refer to a guy talking to her as a creep to her friends/bf....idk. xD

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    • Makayla22

      rin...i'm back with my big mouth >•<

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      • rin

        just when I was getting over the jealousy..! =..O

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        • Makayla22

          your...jealous....of my big mouth, huh?©

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  • bananaface

    No, usually I find it cute:)

    However, quite a few times it's VERY creepy and extremely uncomfortable, like when they pull creepy faces or stare at my boobs constantly. And I mean relentlessly:P! And once this guy decided that a good ice breaker would be, "you wanna have sex?" :L At first I thought he was joking, but the way he acted after I'm not so sure, it's was extremely uncomfortable. So that did lead me to call him a creep to my friends, but the fact that he thought it was acceptable to grope me later in the "conversation" made it called forD: Euurgh, seriously a lot of guys really are creepy, those guys make me sick!

    But anyway, I don't consider guys creepy if they're sweet and polite and funny, and make no inappropriate remarks. Shy guys are cute too:P

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    No way, I love men.

    It only gets creepy when they are flirting with me (I know the difference between flirting and being friendly or socially awkward) even after I have told them I am married and not interested in carrying out an extramarital affair. Then I stop talking to them, as no honorable man would try to get with a married woman. Likewise for chicks.

    Other than that, no, I love men. I am married to one.

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  • lightninglove

    Depends on the scenario. Though honestly, if you are quite old and you look dodgy then yeah I'd probably consider you a creep, however if you're a normal guy I'm fine with it.

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    • januarycurse

      so old guys aren't normal?

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  • no i find it sexy at night refreshing in the morning and beatufilly sung anytime

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  • Makayla22

    hey rin, plz remember me becuz i'm not going 2 be on here all the time becuz of school but wat i'm saying is...that i might get on here every other day or on the weekends...

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    • rin

      ^.^ too bad they don't have a messaging system on our profiles.

      I go on here everyday so I probably won't forget you!

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  • Aleks85

    Girls.. your face is creepy.

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    • Makayla22

      excuse me???!

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  • PriincessKay

    It pisses me off when my friends that are girls call guys creepy actually, because 95% of the time they were just being friendly. I oppose their comment and tell them that i honestly think the guy seems normal and friendly. Im not sure why its some girls' first reaction to do this, it seems immature to me and they say it to boost their self esteem about their appearance that a guy was literally being creepy to her because he wanted her so bad. Not the case usually.

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  • They're the kind of idiots that think every guy is interested in them and trying to get something from them.

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  • Jeshua

    I think they like the attention for the most part,and like the appearance of having "options" but they're only human I doubt they really mean it

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  • awerfgaerg

    +1

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