Girls, at what age did grown men first start to check you out?

A woman I know told me that grown-men were already staring at her at the low age of 12, which is creepy. I just want to see if she's the only one that was affected by this so early.

Earlier 10
10-12 24
13-15 23
16-18 7
Later 1
Never :( 8
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  • sillygirl77

    Some adult males are disgusting way too young is my answer

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  • Grunewald

    This should be 'at what age did you start to NOTICE grown men checking you out'. I think I was about 20.

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  • mouldiwarp

    Nasty that you put a frowny emoticon next to “Never”; you support grown-ass men checking out underage girls?? That’s how it comes off as. Most girls are creeped out by men doing that shit... we’re not happy about it...

    To answer the question: I’ve never in my life noticed anyone ‘checking me out’, possibly my dad once but I couldn’t tell. I doubt any other men have- I don’t usually dress femininely and I have masculine features such as noticeably broad shoulders.

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    • LOL No, I Obviously don't support it. By never, I mean that nobody has ever done that, even in adulthood.

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      • mouldiwarp

        Okay

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        • And to me, it seems like most girls actually want attention, so never been checked-out I equated to being bad.

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          • mouldiwarp

            Girls want respectful attention, not sexual advances.

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            • Meowypowers

              I would have loved attention.

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  • ellnell

    13-15. And people always tells me I looked 9 years old when I was as old as 14 so thats kinda disturbing.

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    • RoseIsabella

      That's very disturbing.

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  • fatok

    I'm a guy and if their breast are budding I'm checking them out. I would never take action but the thought is erotic.

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  • Grunewald

    Late bloomer. I had an epiphany when I experienced mutual physical attraction for the first time at 20 (and could name it) and it let the genie out the bottle, so to speak. I recognised what constituted a sexual look for the first time and then noticed that look between all kinds of people, and performed a sort of 'historical revisionism' on my life, wondering in trepidation how much of it I had been oblivious to!

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    • Meowypowers

      I didnt get boobs till 16, I was an athlete as a tween. No boys cared about me until then.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD

    This is so sad. I knew it was bad but not _this_ bad. I knew it had been like this for a lot of people close to me but I didn't know this was... the norm.

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    • 1234tellmethatyoulovememore

      I didn't expect it to be this bad either, despite it first happening to me at 11.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I recall being catcalled and harrassed on the street, and at the beach as young as 12, and it's disgusting. Lecherous, old creeps are the dregs of the humanity, and I wouldn't have a problem with seeing them beat half to death for sport.

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  • CountessDouche

    12 was the magic number for me.

    People are gross.

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    • charli.m

      Ppl

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      • CountessDouche

        Stpd ppl

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  • GuvnorsOtherWoman

    Never and that's how I like it.

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  • BlackPeople

    As a black man trying to make it in this world, this makes me feel for women also trying to make it in this world.

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    • 1234tellmethatyoulovememore

      It's a struggle, let me tell ya!

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  • darefu

    12 or 13 seems about right, that's when I noticed grown men, actually, what I would call sexually looking.

    I'm not sure how this fits in, but I was only about 8 when I had my first crush and comparably he was what I considered an adult, at that time.
    He was some where around 17 to 19, just graduated HS.
    He didn't even notice me and I'm not sure it was really sexual thoughts. Not sure I even really knew what SEX was. I did imagined being married to him and having his babies.

    I guess that's the follow-up question. When did we (girls) start noticing guys and when did it become sexual checking them out.
    I was 11 but it was a female that started the sexual awakening in me.

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  • SwickDinging

    Around age 11. It was often men 50+ doing this, and they would go beyond just "checking me out".

    It's fucking disgusting.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD

    Yikes.

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  • Hertoy69

    Yea me I was eight and she was my oldest sisters friend about 18yo she didn't just look, she screwed me up for the rest of my life ,and the new stat's on female perpetrators on young boys I America and the UK is more boys are molested by girls and woman than by males by get this!! 89% by females true statistic!!.

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  • greekfish

    Yeah uh never

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  • 12345678912

    This post is by a person who i suspect t to being a peodo. Thers another post about what age did ..... blah blah sex on here i recon its same guy.

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  • cathieann

    I was a teenager when my breasts developed into DDs. I used to get a lot of looks lol

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  • hauntedbysandwiches

    Probably 14-15

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  • Tinybird

    maybe they were just staring at her cause she's ugly?

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  • 1234tellmethatyoulovememore

    I was 11

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I was ten. I'd go to a convenience store, the library, or a friends house and grown ass men would shout dumb shit like "hey sexy" or "ai mami" and make kissy noises. I started taking my dog with me everywhere and no one said anything to me after that. She had black fur, pale blue eyes, and was VERY aggressive toward people that made me uncomfortable. I miss her. Lol

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  • raisinbran

    The bigger issue here is general rudeness and lack of empathy.

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  • idolomantis

    I first NOTICED it when I was 12...no doubt it’s happened before that too though.

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  • Curiouskitten444

    Around 5 years old. Family was filled with pedophiles.

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    • cathieann

      Same here

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