Girls are confusing

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I took a girl out on a date last week and it went well, she even said she wanted a second. wW’ve been chatting pretty frequently on a daily basis which seems to be good. However, she keeps declining to hangout so what’s going on?

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  • litelander8
    1 year ago

    She’s probably busy and not taking someone she’s met once seriously. You can be patient or not. It’s up to you!

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    1 year ago

    She either:

    - Likes you but is really shy or
    - She doesn't like you but doesn't have the guts to tell you.

    If it's taking too long for you, move on.

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    She probably feels guilty telling you no outright.

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  • kikilizzo
    1 year ago

    A lot of women are afraid to reject somebody because unfortunately a lot of "nice guys" react with aggression, so we say yes to a second date even if we dont want it. There's also just the fact that people are busy and maybe she lost interest because you are clingy and not respecting of her having a life.

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  • justanothernormaldude
    1 year ago

    really bad periods

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  • Anonnet
    1 year ago

    At least you haven't been ghosted yet. It sounds like it may be coming, but if you're thinking of moving on anyway, you might as well just ask her straight-up why she's declining to meet.

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  • blushed_beautyyyy
    1 year ago

    I usually do this when I'm on my period, maybe she is on hers too?

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  • spotato
    1 year ago

    I would stop communicating and see what happens. If she doesn't reach out or just sees you as just a friend move on for your mental health it's not worth it.

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  • Lusty-Argonian
    1 year ago

    Men are worse. Gut I like who knows I like him asked me to find out status of another girl then tells me he likes me back when I got upset with him but is now super distant after asking him out cause I'm dumb i guess and just I don't know what to think. Men confuse me

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    • dude_Jones
      1 year ago

      Men’s behavior speaks more truthfully than men’s words. Their words should be consistent with their behavior. Listen to the behavior first.

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  • 2bfknhonest
    1 year ago

    what she meant was she didn’t really want to go on a second date she just didn’t want to make u feel bad, so now shes declining you over txt. Unless she really can’t yk. but 🤷🏻‍♀️

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  • my_life_my_way
    1 year ago

    Maybe you have rapist eyes

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      Wouldn’t she of just blocked me then?

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