Girls are confusing

I took a girl out on a date last week and it went well, she even said she wanted a second. wW’ve been chatting pretty frequently on a daily basis which seems to be good. However, she keeps declining to hangout so what’s going on?

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  • She’s probably busy and not taking someone she’s met once seriously. You can be patient or not. It’s up to you!

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  • She either:

    - Likes you but is really shy or
    - She doesn't like you but doesn't have the guts to tell you.

    If it's taking too long for you, move on.

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  • She probably feels guilty telling you no outright.

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  • A lot of women are afraid to reject somebody because unfortunately a lot of "nice guys" react with aggression, so we say yes to a second date even if we dont want it. There's also just the fact that people are busy and maybe she lost interest because you are clingy and not respecting of her having a life.

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  • really bad periods

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  • At least you haven't been ghosted yet. It sounds like it may be coming, but if you're thinking of moving on anyway, you might as well just ask her straight-up why she's declining to meet.

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  • I usually do this when I'm on my period, maybe she is on hers too?

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  • I would stop communicating and see what happens. If she doesn't reach out or just sees you as just a friend move on for your mental health it's not worth it.

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  • Men are worse. Gut I like who knows I like him asked me to find out status of another girl then tells me he likes me back when I got upset with him but is now super distant after asking him out cause I'm dumb i guess and just I don't know what to think. Men confuse me

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    • Men’s behavior speaks more truthfully than men’s words. Their words should be consistent with their behavior. Listen to the behavior first.

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  • what she meant was she didn’t really want to go on a second date she just didn’t want to make u feel bad, so now shes declining you over txt. Unless she really can’t yk. but 🤷🏻‍♀️

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  • Maybe you have rapist eyes

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    • Wouldn’t she of just blocked me then?

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