Girls - is it normal to be faithful

Have you talked to your husband about your frustration? Is he aware you are so frustrated that you are willing to be unfaithful?

Depends what "unfaithful" means. Does it mean a thought? A date? A kiss? Sex, over and over and over? I think different people have different ideas as to where the line is drawn at "unfaithful".

Dappled is right as ever. Just talk to him about it. I'm sure he'd rather have an awkward conversation with you than have you cheat on him.

I am 49 year old guy who enjoys ladies of all ages,
When I was in my twenties I dated a very hot lady and soon after her roommate to.
Any night they invited me over Christine or Ruth had a date. (chris was my love).
I would always be the single ones date.
Chris was tall blond and thin with small perfect tits.
Ruth in shape short redhead with very large breasts.
They taught me how allowing them to satisfy their sexuality ,often in the same room let us all develop.
Watching your partner sweating and moaning in ecstasy becomes surreal.
Most men can only come once or twice a day, they hid me in a closet and Ruth had seven men cum inside her and Christine six, all one at a time over seven hours.
The three of us spent twelve hours in bed and they were delicious.
Do not deny your desires..as they said every cock feels different and good,
Every load of cum is different and delicious....try having several men's cum inside you at once and maybe have someone else lick it all out.

fucking horny slut, thats not fair to do that to your husband. and im not trying to offend but he is probably the one that brings in the income, and while he's at work your fucking thinking of going out and cheating on him :(, filthy fucking whore

this is really stupid. there's no excuse for being a dumb unfaithful bitch.
(unless the sex is bad and you don't see it getting any better obviously(or the guy is a complete dick who deserves it) aha

slut

Yeah ima guy and i need to comment on this. But if you are married, of course you NEED to be faithful. Of course its normal because you should be faithful 24/7 to your loved one. And if your considering having sex outside your marriage and basically cheating on your husband then your a bitch and a slut. And im just callin it how i see it cause if my girlfriend or wife told me they wanted to have sex with someone else its a deal breaker because if you truely love someone if dont wanna have sex with anyone else but them. So if you actually wanna do that then you're a whore.

For me the worst aspect of cheating would be the betrayal of someone's trust. Idk how people deal with the guilt and shame of being deceitful, how they face their significant other after what they've been doing behind their backs. I agree with the other commenters about a lack of communication in your relationship. Talk about it with him, try to re-connect. There are many things that can be done to spice things up.

I think it unfortunately is quite normal but does that make it ok? I dont think so after being cheated on by a partner and doing it myself I never want to be in either shoes again, if your unhappy you need to talk honestey is the most important thing if your in a relationship, I hate secretive selfish behaviour and in the end who does it acutally benefit? In the relationship where someone was unfaithful to me it was actually me who had been sexually fustrated for months so when I found out he was the one who had cheated on me it really fucked my head up and Im still struggling to regain my confidence 2 years on maybe if we could have sat down and spoken like adults alot of pain could have been avoided...

please don't do anything. if anything, you will feel guiltier and the marriage will definitely be ruined due to mistrust. don't be unfaithful.

Its a sad indictment on society that this question can even create a discussion the way that it has. That being said it is normal to be faithful. Anyone who finds themself not willing to be is not someone who should have committed to a marriage in the first place, plain and simple. It seems more and more society is slowly losing its morals and that the value placed on having high morals is just not important anymore. This doesnt just encompass not cheating on a significant other or spouse but in NOT engaging in a "wild sex life".

Freedom is a wonderful thing, it can lead to consenting adults enjoying their life to the utmost, but just being able to do something doesnt mean that you SHOULD be doing that same thing. I personally wouldnt want to be involved with anyone that "enjoyed" a wild sex life before meeting me, there isnt anything I could do about it as I didnt know the person, but still no one wants to think of their spouse as having slept with half the town before they came along.

Try to be faithful as much as possible, if you find that you cant be, divorce is always an option it seems.

Sex outside marriage can be healthy if done properly. Condoms, always a must, no emotional attachment and be very discreet.

another slut cheating on her husband suprise suprise

If you have sex with another dude and your husband finds out he going to shoot that guy and slit your own throat...Im a homosexual

all you girls are lying sluts.

what a gay poll, not so much the question, simply the content. Fucking gay. FUCKING GAY! FUCK! FUCK I'M SO FUCKING PISSED NOW I'M GOING TO BURN DOWN A VILLAGE!

There is something really strange: the comments and the survey show a very different picture. Just less than a third of women in the survey have been unfaithful. A further 8 percent fantasise about it, yet not one woman has added a comment either 'owning up' or saying from experience what it was like.

My reason for contemplating it is to keep my marriage together, not to break it up. He works away a lot. When hegets back, I'm on heat and he's too tired.

I find it interesting that up to now, no woman has added a comment 'in favour' (favor - in US) of my cheating. However, out of 40 women, more than a third have been unfaithful. Ten percent of the whole group have had five or more lovers. Ten percent of the whole group fantasize about being unfaithful. Girls, is there no one who has found infidelity a positive thin? Perhaps not.

In relation to other similar surveys, all of them show that more women are faithful than men, which means that as it takes two to tango, the women who are unfaithful are unfaithful with more men. Otherwise, the numbers wouldn't add up.

Back to the point, infidelity is no big deal, so long as: i) you don't catch anything ii) you don't feel guilty iii) you NEVER tell your husband iv) You never get caught. v) you don't fall in love with your lover - that is the biggest danger for women. (I know. I've had lovers who have fallen for me and it's painful.)