Girlfriend views sex and masturbation as taboo

Hey,

I have been in a relationship going on 8 months now, it was nice waiting to jump in to bed because all of my other relationships were focused on sleeping together. From the start she didn't entertain any dirty talk and I respected it because it was lovely to have found a lady.

After 4 months we tried sleeping together but it was that time of the month, next few times it was sore and we stopped shortly after. Last time I did a little reading on this and decided to go down and try getting her excited first. That went well and she said it felt awesome and it was the first time she let anyone do it to her. Following that we tried again but I couldn't get it in without her being in pain.

I said lets have a chat about how we can solve this, I never pressured her and I am happy to sleep next to her but it would be nice to finally have sex without her feeling pain.

She is in her 30's and we chatted, she opened up and said that she had two previous boyfriends. I asked her what she liked and she said its been so long, I pushed a little and she said its been over 2 years that she doesn't sleep around. This is all good to me, I asked her what about when she is alone... What do you do to yourself that makes you "HAPPY" and she said I don't do that, its not for me!!

I know she will have to see a gynecologist but I am wondering is it normal not to want sex or masturbate and know what gives you pleasure?