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she buys things for me and throws down money once in a while, but if i ever ask her to or whenever we're talking about finances or who should pay for what it turns into an argument. i understand that society usually calls for the man to pay but she's all for women's rights, so i find this a bit hypocritical.
If she's living in your house, sleeping in your bed, eating your food, using the water / heat and is over 18 and is working.. she should be splitting the bills with you or kick her ass to the curb.
Right? Women want equality as long as it's conveineant and beneficial to them. As soon as they gotta u pay for shit and sign up for the draft they realize that they don't really want to be treated equally. It's SOMETHING hypocritical and ironic.
Say to her:
"Ok, hunni. I'll pay for the bills if you do all the housework, give me children when I demand, have sex with me when I demand it, and do everything I say. If we're going to go by gender roles, hun, then you're not the only one gaining the benefits of it."
If she gets angry about it then respond to her with:
"Go fuck yourself, cunt."
Because that's all she really deserves.
My suggestion? Find a girl worth being with who is your partner rather than a child you need to provide for.
Ugh. I had a housemate like this. She didn't even want to pay her share of the utilities and would find a way to weasel out of it. She was gone after that. Im so glad I didn't have sex with her when she offered it.
Relationships arent about 50/50 its about both partners giving their 100% just tell her what you need Communicate. If she doesnt like it its her problem her ideals are un realistic Just casually coast it in. Do not pounce it on her
Some people really are like this when it comes to money for some reason and/or a relationship. If you have a hard time dealing with it, you should at least consider ending it. If you hold out for the "she'll change eventually" she won't, and you'll just get frustrated.