Girlfriend is cheating and i am okay with it?

You're taking it too well that's the "problem". People want to see what they expect to see but you're doing exactly what you should, but what she probably really wants is a little Drama which you have so deprived her of over the years and this is her last ditch effort for attention.

If i were you I'd sever contact with her until she contacts you. If she texts you once then wait a day, if she texts you twice in one day wait two days. The idea behind this is whats called "dread game".

It sounds like the Bitch is trying to stir the pot though.

Ok a number of things, I think this will explain things.

I think everyone is confused because you are ok with this AFTER the fact.

If you and her had've had an agreement before hand it wouldn't have been cheating, and would've made more sense. Because with the way things are even if you are ok with it, because you did not give consent ahead of time she did technically cheat on you.

Prior consent might still seem weird to people but at least then it would've been easier to understand, as things are now with you being completely ok with this it makes since that they would think that you have been cheating or at least that you never considered this an exclusive relationship which by your own acknowledgment of believing people are still free to seek pleasures even while in relationships, you didn't. Which could lead to her thinking you didn't care about her or see the relationship as serious.

As for your question of whether or not you should be angry the answer is yes, not because she slept with someone else, but because she did it without your consent. If you truly have no issue with her sleeping with others then that's perfectly fine. However, as clearly seen by her own behavior she saw this as an exclusive relationship and thus she knowingly violated your trust.

I wish I could give you some advise on what to do next, but unfortunately I'm not sure, I've got my own relationship issues that I can't figure out. But I do hope the information I've given you does help some how.

The fact that she is away from you after she told you is the key factor in all of this. If she cried for an hour and begged for forgiveness, that tells you she, LIKE MOST, finds her mistake to be an extremely critical and unforgivable mistake. The fact that you react with apathy tells her you either don't care about her or you find cheating to be an acceptable thing. Reading through your post tells me the latter is true, if so, you're in trouble.

She will most likely leave you. People who cheat either want out of a relationship and can't seem to end it, so they cowardly go behind their partner's back, or they feel like their relationship partner doesn't care enough about them and they act out because of it. Again im going to bet that it's the latter. Point is, you've made it clear that even when another dude puts his dick inside of her, after six years of committing to one another, you somehow have no feeling of jealousy or anger towards that violation of commitment. In her mind you're either a pussy or you don't care about her and condone cheating. Both ways you're screwed.

Personally I don't understand how that doesn't bother you. I know one other person like you and he keeps getting fucked over by every girl he dates. I honestly think it's because he just doesnt understand commitment and maybe that's your issue, but I dont know you. All I can say is, i would break up with her immediately. Trust me. even if you're not mad, dump her, dont contact her for a while, heck even get with someone yourself or dont, but if you care about this relationship and you think it was an honest mistake, you must offer an appropriate response to her obvious act of complete disrespect towards you. Take it back later if you want, but if you continue with a lack of reaction, she will feel like shes not with a man. That's just my advice, i can obviously be wrong, good luck man.

You gotta pull the trigger.

BECAUSE THAT BITCH RUINED YOUR LIFE.

That's not normal at all. She should have her shit put out on the street and forced to find another place to live. She is probably going to do it again and you are just going to sit back and take that?

If you're okay with it, then fine. Tell her you're not mad and continue the relationship. You're clearly not a complete fucking moron like most young men.

Your a cuck. It's a fetish. I could never would never be a cuck.i think you're in denial. Good luck

You should start a cult. Or at least a swingers club.

That's nothing, I pass my ten year old boy wife around my pals all the time. Then we all bum each other.

Are you in shock?

Not normal but if you wanna be treated like a douche your whole life then this is the best way to go.

Where's your sense of pride/self-worth? Jesus.

I think it's a good thing you feel ok with it. But it does beg the question, at what point would it not be OK with you?

example:
She was having sex with another guy every day?

Or bringing the other guy home and having sex with him?

Are there any limits to being OK with your GF cheating on you?

DID YOU KNOW ... that pigs are the only creatures who do not feel jealous toward their mates... and eating so much pork will affect your hormones/genes that push you towards being angry at bein cheated on??... what iam trying to say that NO IT'S NOT NORMAL and you should feel jealous because its human nature.. even if you eat the stinking pork or not

She wants you to feel something. Are you this passive about her? How would she feel if you cheated? Would she be distraught or would she be no-chalant?

You sound very mature and very stable, both in your emotional and mental states. For that I congratulate you.

Most people delude themselves into thinking that "love" and "relationships" are what romantic movies portray them as. Real life isn't like that at all. Women will sometimes even try to tailor their love life how these movies are, some men will also (but usually just to appease the woman, unless they actually are a pussy, in which case they probably wont be able to hold onto the woman). That is complete nonsense.

As a man your concern should be her ability to produce healthy offspring to continue your genetic line. Your instinct compels you to look for traits that indicate this (developed breasts, full hips, etc) That is it and that is all. (Personally I take it a bit further and look for added benefits such as taller than average for a woman and perfect vision.) As a man you have to "sell" that romance (flowers, dates, whatever other bullshit) it isn't really important aside from the fact it gets her into bed and gets her pregnant.

What could possibly make this even more ridiculous is how she may even get mad at you for not being MORE mad at her actions. Which only goes to prove how illogical women really can be and why under no circumstances should they be tasked with complex problem solving or situations which require crisis management or leadership ability, unless of course they are past the stage of menopause.

If she has good genetics, knock her up (if you want a kid). If you just want sex, well have at it, but if she's messing with other people be careful about STDs.

Congratulations, you're secure enough in yourself to love without wanting to possess: there should be more of your attitude in the world

Ever heard of defense mechanisms? Depending on how mentally mature we are and how we were raised, our coping techniques may vary. The majority of the population will jump to denial or angry outburst, it's the most common response to anything unfortunate. However, some of us do cope differently.

You sound like you're rationalizing while in denial. Think about it. Monogamous relationships aren't restricting, it only requires loyalty. The "rules" are a personal choice, but optional. You made yourself believe that disloyalty is independence, but rationalizing it this way is probably how you cope and protect your sanity. In the end, you're normal by human standards, but not by society's standards.

How is your sex life with your girlfriend?