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We don't have sex or anything yet she hates the fact I look at porn. I'm a guy, I have needs. Whats her problem over this.
her problem is that she is your girl. women believe that if you are in a relationship that they fulfill your needs and why should you look at something or someone else. i fully agree
its hard to explain... its just hurts ok? she doesnt feel hurt in the way that you cheated on her or betrayed her, but it probably makes her feel really unwanted and unatractive. if you really loved her you would think she is more beautiful then any porn star and would be able to picture her in your mind to get off.
well than if you like her alot or even love her you shouldnt let porn get in the way of a relationship even if its an addiction I know i diddnt
your girlfriend is weird
im sorry...but i would have sex with my boyfriend and watch porn with him
She's insecure and feels like you want to have sex with other women (not her) when you look at them and jack off to them.
She must really like you if she gets jealous, so I suggest you keep porn evidence in the dark by deleting your history and what-not and letting her know that (even though you don't have sex) that you think she is sexy and she is the only girl you want.
I can relate to the both of you...
I used to hate my boyfriends looking at porn when I was younger. Looking back it was rather silly as all men like to look and that is harmless!
The golden rule is look as much as you want as long as I am not in the room. (actually i dont mind but somehting like that)
Well I think its rude and disrespectful for a guy to jack off to porn when in a relationship, but the fact that she doesn't initiate sex or obviously doesn't want it then I guess she needs to deal with you doing that. If she wants to be happy then she needs to make you happy.
I'm a chick and I check the porn every morn. It used to bother me that my husband watches it but I know I'm just being stupid, so I don't let it bother me anymore. Its just porn after all. But I can see why this girl doesn't like the fact. She must be insecure. Did you explain to her that you have no plans of tracking down pornstars to bang them? If she can't get over it then tie her up and tape her eyes open and pick a real good one to watch with her and get her off first then yourself and say, see baby, I'm just tryin to make sure I do it right :)
Have you acually told her that you are guy with need?? Becaused I would be pissed off if my boyfriend said that . That's the worst thing you could tell her. My advice is stop doing porn but of you don't want to then just don't tell her.
Whats wrong with watching porn. if she won't give it to you give it to your self. i bet she is catholic
Well If you are Old Enough, Tell her that you have needs and try to figure out if she would have sex with you [try to look attractive when you ask her this]
It's perfectly normal for a guy to look at and masturbate to pornography. Some people will say that if you won't drop your porn for her, you must be addicted. That's bull. Almost all men handle their naturally wandering eye by looking at porn. And it could be worse - a lot of guys cheat!
How are judging her??? If you really loved her you wouldn't be jacking off to
Porn. She should dump YOU!
It's normal for guys to watch porn, and normal for their girlfriends, wives, etc to be upset about it. My husband watches porn sometimes and I used to get very angry but as I've gotten older I've realized almost every guy does it in some way or another and it's a useless battle.
We ladies tend to think it sets unrealistic expectations for sex and can also make us insecure about our bodies and performance. Your girlfriend might not be ready for sex and wants to take things slow and experience yours and her firsts with you, and she might feel that you are being impatient and pressuring her by turning to porn instead.
And some people just think it's gross.
The problem will likely pass if you guys can stay together long enough.
I'm a girl and I understand my bf needs porn! I don't c what the big deal is but it's his decision not mine and I'm fine with it cuz I'm not ready to hav sex! If she's so bothered then say y don't we have sex?
A lot of women find male porn demeaning. Is it that difficult to see why?
No, it's not difficult to see why. But it's based on a misunderstanding of how men work. Men can be in love with their partner, but still need sexual stimulation from other women. Porn serves this purpose, and it's has nothing to do with whether the man's partner is sexy enough for him.
And if you were referring to the women IN the porn, as long as no one's forcing them to do it, what's the problem? Either they don't see it as demeaning, or they feel the money is good enough to warrant whatever shame they may feel. Either way, it's their choice.