Girlfriend gets topless in front of all her guy friends???

Well while she wasnt a big enough attention whore to take her top off herself, she was still a big enough one to walk around topless after it happened, and besides she may have even put her friend up to doing this.

More often then not attention whores end up being real life whores as well. Your better off without her.

If I was in a relationship, I wouldn't go topless around my guy friends. Maybe in my bra, but then again, I never understood why women will go into public with a bikini basically nude but when they are in their underwear and someone sees them, they freak.

And your girlfriend's friend sounds like a bitch. I don't have any friends that would undress me like that in my sleep. I don't see anything inherently wrong with sleeping in a room full of guys but friends undressing me? No. They might draw on me (which has never happened) or take a picture of me asleep for kicks but they wouldn't undress me. That's a level of disrespectful they wouldn't dwell near.

If I were her I wouldn't reflect on that situation and laugh, I'd think back on it and want to crawl under my bed and stay there. But I'm more conservative than most girl these days. That would be a horrific experience.. Betrayal, pervertedness, you name it, that's a shitty situation. I think she has a screw loose... I would definately be upset hearing that my gf did that while we were in a relationship..

Girls only get two options?

That's odd and rather whorish.
If I was in a relationship, I wouldn't go topless to male friends. If I was you, I would've dumped her.

Well that's a little weird mostly because why did her friend want to undress her? I was confused at first, I thought you were mad at her for her friend gettin topless because of the way you worded it.

I dont see anything wrong with being topless because breasts are not naturally a sexual organ and it is mostly because of religion that we are taught to hide our bodies and be ashamed of them. If I'm in my own home or having a bonfire or at a friends who doesn't care and it gets too hot, I'll take my shirt off and not see it as any different from if a dude would because at the root of the issue it is no different.

And I understand you wanting to protect her. But it would be foolish to think you can protect yourself simply by avoiding doing certain things. And unless you think all her friends would gang rape her/let someone else rape her, she would be safer in a room full of people.

Bad people could be anywhere, but they're not everywhere. I wouldn't encourage my significant other to live their life in fear

It’s totally okay. It’s for fun. Once at a party my gf fell sleep on a couch and her blouse went down and one of her tit showed. My friend pull it out and drew a face around her nipple and they laughed.

It's no big deal.

I go topless around friends all the time and my husband has no problem with it

That's really mean of her. I wonder why she didn't put her top back on......

She sounds like a careless skank

Wouldnt care for me, be happy that you can get a girl at all

She just sounds very weird.
If she was normal she would have told you in an appologizeing way. And if she was a whore she would not have told you at all.

Stories like these creep me up dude.
I too would've been angry on a subject like this.
Well past's past? Aint that?

She sounds like a whore.

You've been in a loving relationship for years and something so trivial she's done in the past offends you? I'm sorry but you sound like a jerk.

I'd rather question the motives of the male friends?
Why did they undress a sleeping girl? -_-

As for being casually naked, it really depends. During high school, me and select classmates often went skinny-dipping after class, and while that WAS sexually loaded, it was not a big deal. A photocamera landed in the river in the early days, but no other incidents took place.

What i am trying to say: It really depends on the relationship with them, their history, and, as said, the motives of the guys. I mean, WHY is your girl sleeping in a room full of other guys in the first place? Is she casually nude often? I know it's all in the past, but those are important factors to understand what her motivation was?
Was she intoxicated at the time? Was she maybe trying to downplay it in the veins of "They all had a good look already, i will not give them the satisfaction of panicking now..."? Did she ever give you reason to suspect she was cheating?

All in all, i don't think it's enough for a verdict of negative nature. Heck, we are young and do lots of stupid things. During junior high, I convinced a friend of mine to play strip poker with 2 guys because _I_ wanted to see her naked. Well, i lost. *shrug* There's many stupid reasons why people end up seeing you naked, and nudeness is natural enough to not be sufficient for being a slut/whore by itself.

Ha it's normal to be upset about this. My bf had a dream, a fucking DREAM that i walked naked in front of his brother and he was mad at me...even after he woke up lol. Anyways, it's normal to not want other men to see your significant other's rack. Were you dating at the time this happened? And it seems this story would've been better left untold.

That really depends on how many dollars her male friends put in her panties, wouldn't you agree? ;)

dump the whore