Girl wants to hang out with me, but has a boyfriend?

Just asking if its normal for girls to want to hang out with guys (as in hang out in environments which could be deemed 'dates') when she has a boyfriend.

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Based on 47 votes (28 yes)
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  • dom180

    I think it's fine to hang out with them. Hanging out in itself isn't overstepping any lines, so long as the hanging out isn't done naked or with each other's genitals rubbing up against each other.

    Just don't do anything romantic or sexual, which are just the same rules that should always apply.

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  • Energy

    Oh please. Nothing wrong with having male friends if you have a bf. It's wrong to think so. Most girls I've met avoid other girls anyway, too much drama.

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    • KingSwiss

      thats a good point I suppose. if I were to elaborate on the circumstances however, in this case, I'm pretty sure she has other reasons.

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  • She has a boyfriend. Don't do it. If it is infact places that are "dating environments", then think about how you would feel if someone done that to your partner if you had one.

    If she likes you, make sure she breaks it off with the guy for you, because it's not fair for her to cheat on him or for him to be in a relationship with someone that is interested in others.

    Be smart and thoughtful.

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    • KingSwiss

      I just wanted to know how I should move. I would never go on them, and haven't acted on them. This is just the first time I was in this predicament, and all my guy friends told me its normal, she just wanted a friend - but I don't get that vibe. not from someone who has a boyfriend. If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't take another girl out to dinner.. I'D TAKE MY GIRLFRIEND. lOL.

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      • Exactly. Your friends may not understand it because they are not in the situation so do not know first hand of the vibes.

        It seems you have your head on straight about this. Good man. Props to you.

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        • tripw7

          Agree with ItDuz. You have your head on straight. You can be nice, just don't get run over by someone that obviously doesn't have it all together.

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  • udolipixie

    It's normal as I find gals tend to seek companionship and friendship with guys unlike guys who generally only interact with gals on sexual terms as I find guys sole motivation to interact with gals is to fuck them.

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  • resinsoft

    What s purpose to hangout then?wasting time!

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  • resinsoft

    I hate this kind of girl, indeed

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  • Shelbs

    I think it's okay as long as you or her don't make any moves towards each-other. Everything should remain friendly. If she does start making moves, you should back away.

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  • DragonQueen

    Sounds like she wants some of your stuff. Are u Cute? well if u are, she probabally is tryin to make her man jealous or she wants your stuff.

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    • KingSwiss

      lmao.

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  • White___October

    Does it matter that she has a BF?

    I've had several BF's in the past, but that never stopped me from hanging out with other guys. After all, those guys are my friends and they remain so regardless of any relationship.

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  • Imsupernormal

    You should totally fuck her dude!

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