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Okay, so there's this girl, and she copies EVERYTHING I do. She listens to the same music as me, she buys the EXACT same clothes as me, and she even went to the same hairdresser as me and asked to get her hair EXACTLY like mine.
Is this normal?
Is it normal for me to be angry?
How can I stop this..?
Quit being angry and look at it as a compliment. Trust me, no one else will ever find you that cool again...especially when you grow up and move on from school.
Wear a bald cap. After she shaves her head, take it off and problem solved!
I have had the exact same problem for the past year and a half. I befriended this girl who was pretty shy and didn't seem to make friends easily and she latched on like a leech. It wasn't long before she was buying similar styled outfits, listening to the same music, and joining my tennis team. She was never rude or mean to me though, so I took it as a good thing. The truth is though that her Mom was stuggling with cancer at the time, and she was always so happy to hang out with me, so I let her keep doing it so as to not make her life any more miserable. But after time, I started resenting her and then just started ignoring her altogether for months, and I felt awful the whole time. Right now, I'm just trying to find a balance of how much I hang out with her, and it seems to be working pretty well.
Sounds like a first class stalker, once this girl in high school followed me EVERYWHERE copied EVERYTHING I did and spied on me, I actually had to gat a restraining order, she sent me about a million photos of myself with love heart stickers on 'em, some creeeepyyyy stuff.
It happens quite frequently especially amongst girls although the hairstyle bit is quite extreme. I have more often experienced it with copying art homework or buying the same shoes, like bright red ones and wearing them to the same event and it's annoying, you don't want to be walking around with someone copying your every move. It's a subtle form of inverted controlling because you are now getting to the mental head space where you have to think about this person who really means very little to you. Whatever you do is going to be in reference to them. People who say take it as a compliment have in my opinion not had it happen to them. sleeping owls ideas seem good: talk to her about it and if she really needs someone to copy then ask her to find an alternative to you.
It's normal for her to do it cause she's JEALUS and everyone is jealous. But she went overboard.. But it's also normal to be angry. Call her out on it, or tell her your going to shave all your hair off and it's the new trend. Maybe she will....ha.
It's completely normal to be angry about it. My sister in law is the exact same way. It's pathetic really. And i can't stand it when people always say "imitation is the most sincere form of flattery". It's absolutely annoying. My sister in law and her husband went so far as to get engaged in the exact same place and same way my husband proposed to me. And she honestly doesn't think there is anything wrong with it. People like them are sad creatures, indeed. They have no thoughts of their own and no personalities either. They just grab onto someone like a leech and suck the life out of them.
I feel for you. If you're able... Cut this person out of your life. I wish I could do the same.
Omg I hate chicks like this. I had a girl that did that in hs and it was so goddam aggrivating. It's normal to be pissed off.