Ghosted my girlfriend 2 years ago now regret it. normal or no?

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I ghosted her..because she was the kindest person I ever met and I couldn't stand how nice she was. It was annoyingly nice. Does that even make sense?

Anyway left her like a douche without saying a thing , immediately got with another girl who had a mansion and her parents paid for it because they are millionaires. She was lots of fun always wanted to go out every day and do something but later when we just sat in alone doing nothing I realized I didn't actually love her like I did my ex.

I realized I didn't feel like I could be with her forever. Before I ever could hint it she left me.

Now I'm alone and the only person I know I ever truly loved more than anyone was my last ex but I ghosted her and I don't know if she's seeing someone or not. It's actually killing me to think I ruined my life by doing something I thought was right at the time. My ex was perfect..and I walked out on her life!

Normal I regret this?

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Based on 11 votes (8 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Karma's a bitch, ain't it?

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    • Depression_Frustration
      5 years ago

      Yup

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    It's normal to have regrets, but chances are since it's been TWO years since you shut her out, she's either with someone else or just wants nothing to do with you. You're better off not contacting her and finding someone else.

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  • fux3
    5 years ago

    Lmao! Id love to understand the mindset behind this. Why do so many people think being a dick makes them cool, and that "nice" people should be treated like shit? Are you just really insecure or something?

    Wait a minute... "immediately got with another girl who had a mansion and her parents paid for it because they are millionaires" LOL This sounds like it was contrived by a 10 year old.

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  • Depression_Frustration
    5 years ago

    Wow. Well, I hate to say this but I think u deserve it...your ex sounds amazing and u ghosted her...damn if I was her I wouldn’t even wanna look at u ever again. But if ur lucky, she might give u a second chance...but honestly, I think she deserves better than u.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    Gaining experience of life and becoming more emotionally mature makes us better people and much more pleasant to be around, but it also means that we can have regrets about things we've done in the past.

    You could get in touch with your ex to apologise for how you treated her, but this would really be for your benefit rather than hers. You'd possibly be stirring up memories she finds painful and it would likely come across as you looking to get back together. If she has any sense, she would be wary about this, and that's not a good footing to start or restart a relationship.

    Also, bear in mind that when you're alone, it's natural to look back on past relationships and emphasise the good things. Maybe you would be able to better appreciate your ex's positive qualities now, but it's also possible you'd remember other less positive things about being with her if you were to get back together.

    I think the wisest thing to do would be for you to accept that you should have been more honest and decent with your ex, but there's nothing you can do about that now. It's often much easier said than done, but you need to learn your lessons from the two relationships and move on.

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    You should ask her.

    Also add in the biggest apology ever.

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