Gf trusts me but what's going on?

I moved abroad for a job and found a girlfriend who then had to live abroad for three months. She is naturally cynical as a person but is very caring and considerate of me. Secretly, she's also very sensitive. When I was sick, she ordered medicine and a box of chocolates to be delivered to me. When I told her I wanted to squeeze her so bad, she ordered a plush rabbit for me to hug, it was sentimental because I used to own one as a child.

Problem is, the next time we both could see each other is NYE...but she doesn't want to meet until February.

She suggested we don't spend NYE together because I'll be having Christmas with my family abroad then visiting my brother (also abroad) and staying at his place. She would have to stay at an hotel alone. She says she understands I'd want to spend alot of time with my brother, who's my best friend, and doesn't want to bother me.

My parents are also visiting me later, after NYE when I'm back, so she tells me I don't have to see her during January although she'd be back from abroad as well. She says my family and I are very close (true), and that she just wants me to spend time with them without having to be bothered by her.

In the end, she wants us to meet on February instead. Is this normal? I mean, she trusts me not to cheat on her, but what does this mean???

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Comments ( 5 )
  • alienslayer

    Yeah she just wants to give you some space, Some girlfriends spend too much time with thier boyfriends, That thier boyfriends get sick of them.

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  • Arm0se

    It's not that she doesn't want to see you, she just thinks you'll be happier without her for a while.

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  • NathanScot

    She's just being considerate mate,dont overthink it.Cher'

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  • Freedom_

    That's a lot of broads... :P

    It sounds to me like she's just being very considerate and perhaps she has her own business she needs to take care of during that time too. If you're sure enough of your relationship you could invite her to spend NYE with you and your family. Are you having a gut feeling that something is wrong with her prolonging the visit?

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  • PinkHairedFreak

    How long have you been together?

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