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The photos are of her standing next to the other guys but with her arm around one guy in one pic and she heart reacts all of one guy's comments. She's in the military FWIW and says these are her friends
Communication is the key. Ask yourself if she would treat you any different if the roles were reversed. Her having friends that are mostly men and you being concerned about that sounds slightly concerning imo. You don't want to lose her which is very understandable and being jealous is fine, it's just what you do with that jealousy which truly matters. Just express your concerns to her, actually talk to her instead of accusing her or assuming something you may or may not know, because otherwise you're gonna make her feel like you don't trust her and will only push her away.
Women in the military have a difficult and unique situation. Especially in the navy. The ratio of vagina:penis is too low. And they ultimately get bullied into satisfying those around her. It might not happen all the time, but I've heard it too much for it to be insignificant.
Not saying that's your girl, but maybe listen to her and be there for her?
Ngl, it would worry me, not the aspect of her heart reacting their pics, but her working with dudes who go abroad and are starved of affection and pussy, with her being the only female there.
It's the equivalent of owning a brothel and not fucking the whores. Some people do it, and stay loyal to their partners, but their saints. You know her better than us; really only you can decide whether she's trustworthy or not.
When you serve with someone they become more than just a friend. Yes, it can become romantic, it isn't exactly impossible to love more than one person in a way a lot of people think should only truly love one person. People are more complicated than that. Just remember this... Relationships don't mean owning someone, people are not property. She may heart the comments, but she chose to be in a relationship with you, nothings stopping her to be with them if she didn't have some kind of feelings towards you. But let me get back to the whole serving thing again, you serve with people you get a special kind of bond, not just family-like bonds, but the kind that you can trust to watch your back. Because it has been proven. Plus, when you go through hell with people you get close to, it builds a very strong bond. I am not saying let it go though, I am just saying don't act out until you actually have more evidence or if you can live with being wrong and single, or at the very least, making her rethink this whole relationship because of not trusting her.
She sounds like a flirt and if you are ok with that then you have to deal with that .
I take pictures with my guy friends. I don't heartreact to their photos, maybe sometimes. None of them upload a lot so there's not much to heartreact.
Then listen to her. They kinda fight wars n other stuff together. Some type if bond between bb's is bound to happen