Gf meets guys traveling abroad and travels with them, by themselves

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I've been in an exclusive relationship with a girl who is much younger than me (I'm 28, she is 20) for about 4 months. She has been away studying abroad and in her travels she is always meeting people- this I have no problem with. But she will meet a guy, make friends, and stay at the same place where he is couchsurfing. Or, more recently, she met someone while traveling and they are meeting up to travel together (just them) for the week. They're even going to a wedding together.

Is there any chance she is being truthful that she won't betray me and I have nothing to worry about? Or, by definition, that is a weird situation and girls in relationships shouldn't be doing that kind of thing. Help!

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  • chimcham
    8 years ago

    I've been thinking, either way a girl who will do this really doesn't care about how I feel. Thinking of ending it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Time will tell. The truth always comes out eventually. I know that doesn't help you at this moment. I find that a bit disrespectful though on her part. But again no offense you can't expect a whole lot out of most twenty year olds.

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  • Murun
    8 years ago

    You sound younger than her!

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  • VinnyB
    8 years ago

    Of course she might be being truthful. She might also me lying. It's a matter of trust. You know her better than I do.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never yours to begin with.

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    • mystery7
      8 years ago

      If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it doesn’t, blast it out of the sky with a double barrel shotgun.

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  • breathingtree
    8 years ago

    When I travelled alone I made friends along the way and spent a lot of time with them, including staying with them but I never had sex with any of them. Travelling like that felt safer than being completely alone.

    I have female friends who've travelled like that and didn't have sex with anyone. I also have female friends who have had sex with guys they met while travelling.

    You either trust your girlfriend or you don't.

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    Dude. Use common sense. She's in a foreign country, jumping from guy to guy house to house. What would YOU be doing? She's 20 years old. I'd just break up with her till she gets back.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    She's 20 years old, how would you expect her to act??

    She is probably cheating on you.

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  • NathanScott
    8 years ago

    What the fuck bruh, this bitch is having sex on this travels and you know it...your just scared to confront her cause she might leave you.

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    My experience with girls that do that is more often than not they're having sex with other people on their travels. Of course, you'll have to go on your gut feel and how much you trust her.

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  • Angelmikeal0
    8 years ago

    omg wtf is that shit a joke no fucking way am gonna allow that shit, she is probably screwing different guys from different countrys, just end that shit and get yourself trust worthy woman.

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