Gf is 20% lesbian?

I have always had my suspicions that my GF was a lesbian. She flirts with other lesbians right in front of me. I just thought she was very gay friendly.
Well after being extremely flirty on the phone, more flirty than she has ever been with me, with a lesbian... I felt very crushed. I asked if she was a lesbian, and she said she is 20% lesbian and 80% straight.
Is it normal to feel totally crushed by this? She says she will always be monogamous while she is with me... but I don't appreciate the flirting. She may as well be flirting with a guy.

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Comments ( 18 )
  • nagasonavimana

    OP...you are a complete idiot. Your girlfriend declares her interest in the female form as a sexual object and you don't position yourself for a three-way? WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?

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  • osweettart

    I'm kind of confused why you're upset. Is it because of the percentage and the fact that she's flirty or just the fact that she's flirty? She's basically just bi. I know a lot of people who are bi and are completely monogamous to their significant others, despite their percentages which really don't mean a whole heck of a lot if they're with someone they love. As for the flirting, just tell her how you feel. Don't be too pushy about it and don't accuse or you'll just ruffle up feathers and seem too controlling. Just explain your concerns calmly and ask her to stop. If she doesn't, maybe it's time to move on if you're really that upset by it.

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  • pixie_dust

    hey kev, why are u anonymous part of the time only? never mind.. anyway, ur gf probably got fed up with u being so insecure. [rolls eyes] its time to quit being so dumb about it. she was bi-curious. every girl pretty much goes thru that stage. and what bullshit, u said it was bcuz of ur dick?!?? wtf is wrong with ur dick that she would leave u?? cmon, dont feed us such bullshit!!

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  • Your a tobracorn wow I am a 15% hippo 35% geco 50% sheep (shippeco) wow I didn't know there was someone else out there. Anyone else?

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  • loviex102

    Well, I'm 10% unicorn, 50% zebra and 40% toad and I flirt with people too. You gonna ask me too?

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  • BlackShadow123

    She probably does 69 with them. Or at least dreams to.

    yea, she would totally go for them if you ditched her.

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  • randomjelly

    Whore.
    Did you hear that?
    Whore.
    Damn, there it is again.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Like the milk equation? She's 20% skim and 80% whole. The way she states this is odd... Either you are a lesbian or your not. If anything she is bisexual.

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  • BlueAlice

    Biphobic and paranoid OP is biphobic and paranoid

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  • good for you

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  • Well, we broke up... she just didn't like my dick. But I found a great new girl who LOVES my dick! Went from over a year of depression to walking on cloud nine. :-)
    Ahh, what a difference to have a straight girl.

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  • Barking_Spiders

    It seems most women are at least bi-curious even if they dont go any further than having a fantasy. My wife is bi-curious and I've had four exes who were openly bi-sexual. Never bothered me at all. Anyway, it's a God given opportunity for a threesome, and never mind that 'two's company' nonsense

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  • Seven

    Well. There are two others... I'll be damned. I am 12% rhino,18% human, 4% apple, and 76% super baby genius. I am a rhumppius. If anyone has a problem with that I will shove my rhino horn I their gut. P.s. Guess which part of me is apple? I'll give a little hit, it's the stem. Where my d*** should be. And its 14 inches of AWHH YEAH!!!!!

    On the topic of you bisexual gf. You could help her get rid of some of the urges. Just tell her that she can pick any one of the girls and breind them home, and do them while you watch. That should give you a good hour to Jack off, and help her get over this whole thing. Or she might realize that sex with them is much funner, and dump you to be a lesbian. Try it if you want. So far it has a 100 percent success rate, of the one person who actually did it. It only worked because the other girl got freaked out when she not aced the guy sitting in the corner pumping his dick. It could have been that he was wearing a hockey mask. Or the shirt that said "can I kill you tomorrow?" on second though, don't try my tactic, just talk with her about the problem.

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  • kev779

    Man I'd b crushed to, I'd say talk to her bout it cuz it my just b flirting now but it WILL eventully be more I promise you, and if u try to stop it she will just try to sneak it.... Unless she is trying to do this because she heard guys think lesbians are hot

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  • Carrie:)

    Wait,
    Don't answer that.

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  • Carrie:)

    I'm 20% dinosaur. Do you think I'm normal?

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  • catspiral

    Flirting is flirting. If it would upset you if she flirted with a male, I don't see why you shouldn't be upset if she does with a female. Maybe you could talk to her about not doing it so much, since it really bothers you?

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  • ruralfrights

    Where exactly did she come up with these numbers? I could be wrong, but I don't buy into this bisexual bit. I do, however, buy into being sexually confused and slapping the label bisexual on it to house the experimentation period. She's either on board w you or she isn't. Otherwise, you will get 80 percent of her attention. The winds of change are blowing, good man. She will either go for being gay or stop her behaviors and averaging numbers to fully commit to making you her man. I bet you deserve that status. Don't settle for less.

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