Getting with girls

ok this is my problem, i have not had a really relationship before coz everytime i ask a girl out they say "we are to good of friends". i always make good friends with girls and i Make them laugh Alot,. thats why they like me. but they never want to be sexual with me the want to just be friends.
Is this normal should i not make them laugh and be friends with them? like what am i doing wrong. i'm just being friendly with them and making them laugh

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Based on 55 votes (45 yes)
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  • redtruck

    Make them laugh more

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Yep everyone does it

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  • kallisti44

    This is always an issue in high school. Try being honest about your attraction/intentions right away without coming on too strong. You'll wind up with less superfluous "friends" but that's what you want, isn't it?

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    • dude_Jones

      I agree. Occasionally, it can help to project a bad boy image. Bust on her a little bit, like you think she is sexy, but you don't give a damn. It can sometimes create the right kind of interpersonal tension.

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  • Scrat

    I Agree with the user above me

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  • Meximelt

    When I used to say this it really meant "I am not attracted to you." I know it hurts to hear it but its probably the truth. Don't worry though, you don't want to date a shallow girl anyway. Eventually they will come around when they realize sexy men are usually jerks, which I have found they are! If I had only given in to the advances of my ugly high school friends! Maybe I'd be happy haha

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  • rygon12

    Don't be picky? wats that supposed to mean?

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  • nothing2

    don't be picky

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  • houstonplanner

    you need to find a new dating pool. feel free to branch out and meet new people - preferably ones that don't tell you they know you too well to go out with you.

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