Getting over guys

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Whenever I like a guy I like him for so long and every other guy looks like poop to me but him and even when we are over, I still love him and think about him ALL the time. It takes me so long to get comfortable with another person and to adjust. It takes me at least a year and I just don't care about other boys when I'm with him. Every song reminds me of him and every situation I'm in I just think of him. And I never get over him until I meet a new guy, if I hadn't met a new guy I would have never stopped liking him. I guess It just takes me a really long time to get over people when everyone else has forgotten and moved on I still think about the people I used to love all the time and I dream about them. Is this normal or am I just too attached?

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  • Rlandist
    11 years ago

    You sound to be a humble, honourable monogomist and you should be proud of that! Embrace it because there are few humans that haven't had this natural, biological instinct disappear. But I would advise, this can be dangerous. Men know how to play this instinct, so please keep your guard.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Everyone has faults, but when we fall for someone we tend to be blind to their short-comings, especially when we've never had the opportunity to truly know them well (like you would when you live with a person).

    It's not a cure but it can help you get over them if you realistically recognize their faults, to help you get over the fantasy that they are a perfect human being. No one is perfect.

    Avoidance helps too.

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    A lot of people have this problem. If you want to forget someone, break off all contact and hang out with other people. That's all the advice I can give on this.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Make the past dull in comparison to the present, and the future even brighter. That's how you forget and move on.

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  • Randomgirl14311
    11 years ago

    Omg haha boys are so lucky

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  • Thatguy777
    11 years ago

    That's how I feel about this girl, but we aren't even together.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    Is this what goes on in women's heads!?!?!?!? Man....I think I'd fucking kill myself if I was a woman :O

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  • Ldizzy1234
    11 years ago

    I have the same problem. And I'd go with what Corleone and ccjigsaw said.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    I'm the exact same way. Except, I never had a boyfriend. It's always just crushes for me.

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