Getting hitched with stranger

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Sooo ...
I met this guy , I really like him he seems perfect so far. He lives in one state and I live right next in another state but he always visits every other day for work .
He has nice things , a nice car , hes pretty cute .
7 years older I am only 19 .
He wants to get hitched , get married this week .
Is it normal if I am okay with it ?
He wants to take care of me.
Is that being a gold digger .
He implied marriage .
We both don't love eachother but BAM he wants me to be his Trophy wife why do I have the urge to be okay with it .
To flaunt me off and buy me nice things .
He has a big house , cars , money and hes pretty cute for a 26 year old really hot . He says he always waits for girls in relationships but it never works so why not rush and get married . He thinks im perfect and I am very attracted to him . I think we would make a pretty HOT couple .
If I do go thru with this is it normal to just get married .
Like what the HECK .
I wouldn't say daddy issues but he treats me like a princess so far and I want to see whats in store some more . I actually could see myself one day falling for him but what if I say no to a guy loose all worth my wild .
Is it bad I want to marry a stranger I haven't even known for a month yet ? Any Thoughts.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    It sure doesn't sound like you've thought this through very well. As soon as you are installed in his "big house" he's going to be right back out there on the road, every other day for work. Meeting other girls, perhaps? How do you know he won't turn out to be an abuser? You are putting a lot on his word with no guaranties or assurances that if things do not work out, you will be taken care of.
    Anyway, good luck, because I'm pretty sure you've already made up your mind.

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    • KinkCat
      9 years ago

      Yeah , I really haven't .
      We weren't really planning on moving in together so soon . As in just stay weekends with him till I feel comfortable .
      But that could be very true also , he could be abuser .
      Mabye I will think this out some more put my greedy thoughts away . Thank YOU .

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  • Surfergirl
    9 years ago

    Check this guys background out really good!!! What does he do to have this wealth? A real job? Also, what if he turns out not to be the guy you thought and is abusive? Watch a few hours of Investigation Discovery sometime. This world is a cruel place and it's hard to trust people so quickly. It's obvious he's giving you the attention you crave but nothing is forever. I'm just trying to look out for you. Keep an open mind, you're still young. I married at 19 myself and if I could turn back the hands of time, I wouldn't have done it. I would have gone to college instead. Thankfully, there was no kids involved. Best of luck

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  • My02cents
    9 years ago

    You`ll be in for a big surprise.

    As the saying goes: " One never feeds a fish already been caught."..meaning, once his ring is on your finger, you`ll get zilch,nada,nothing....more from him.

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  • seekelp
    9 years ago

    This looks like a poem. It doesn't scan that well though.

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