Getting high to escape reality

OK. I recently starting smoking marijuana. My man does it. I used to get mad at him for doing it. Then some shit happened in my life and I decided to try it. I only take little tokes and get a little high. I like how it makes me laugh.

Yesterday I had more shit happen. Some asshole hit my car while it was parked and drove away without leaving a note or anything. I don't know who it was.

Then the welfare neighbours pissed me off. Getting their baby bonus cheques, spending it on cigarettes, booze and gambling machines. Worthless pieces of shit.

So we smoked a lot more pot last night. I got really high. Now I want more, and I want to try other drugs. So far weed is the only drug I've done, other than anti-depressants, but that's different.

I like to escape reality. I hate this world we live in today. I can't deal with it. so I need something to help me, to take me away from the shit.

I feel better now that I got taht off my chest. I'm sure someone must agree with me.

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  • slurpeesOWN

    Holy fuck kill yourself already. I'm sorry but if you can take this world, killing ur body will only make it worse. Find a perminant solution. Fix yourself up or die!

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    • How does weed kill your body??

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  • Platinum719

    Smoke buddah to relax, and chill not to escape problems. Of course when I'm stressed taking a hit off the blunt helps me calm down. Smoke Indicas they are very calming.

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    • Thanx for the advice! =)

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      • Riddler

        This is why MOST people get high. This is why MOST people do drugs. Most of the people do these things to escape something. There is nothing special in your case. Not that drugs always help and often make whatever misery they are feeling worse in some cases. People just want an escape though.

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  • Using weed in this way is NOT a good idea.
    Weed shouldn't be used for depression or anxiety. The same way you shouldn't use alcohol to drown your sorrows. The fact that you're looking to other more potent, addictive drugs to escape after trying some marijuana says that it's not the pot that's the problem, it's you.

    Go to your doctor because it sounds like you are too stressed out to deal with some of the things that are happening in your life. Your doctor should be able to prescribe you some legal drugs (drugs that are specifically made for fixing your problem) and recommend you to a counselor. Make sure you go to the counselor because drugs alone (weed or prescriptions) won't help you in the long run.

    Brought up to believe that anything in excess is a bad thing. Luckily, I wasn't raised to be brainwashed into thinking marijuana is a gateway drug or a life-ruining lifestyle. I also live in British Columbia, Canada; where even though it is still illegal (barely, but still, it's a reality), it continues to be a very strong part of BC culture.

    I've smoked pot for about 20 years and usually on average of only a couple of times a week. I've gone through dry-spells with marijuana too. I never drink. I have never been "addicted" to weed, alcohol, cigarettes, or caffeine. I don't think it should be used my minors either.

    I am successful in life. My bills are always paid. I dress well. I live in a beautiful home in an affluent neighborhood in my city. If you met me, you would never guess that I toke up, but I also don't try to hide it either because it's not something that I would ever feel ashamed of.

    One day, the paranoid, narrow-minded, hypocritical conservatives will be the minority and their influence in society will diminish... Or so we can only hope. :-)

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  • stokedscooter

    yeah.....see this sounds like an addiction. Smoking weed to get away from problems is just as bad as doing heroin to get away from problems, because youre not using it to have fun, youre depending on it to help you or something. This is exactly how ppl get addicted to harder drugs. I definitely would not try other drugs if I was in your position because if you get hooked on weed so easily then ANY other drug will be tenfold. Weed is one of the most non addicting drugs because it never causes you to chase that first high, you just do it to chill and hang out wit buddies. Most other drugs get you addicted because your mind will chase that first high because the very first high actually created a dopamine imbalance in your brain, so whenever you think about doing that drug, you actually associate feelings of happiness with it.

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  • Dreamboat

    hi

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  • Lostboyck13

    Allota people here are taking this the wrong way. She is not depressed.

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  • I know weed makes you feel good and well that's how I learned the meaning of being high& im not proud of smoking weed but I do understand it's an awesome feeling..just don't do it because problems will never go away and what you are doing is just destroying your body I suggest just staying clean & just dealing with your problems(:

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  • crystal43920

    All I have to say is read this book.... JAMES FREY, A MILLION LITTLE PIECES,It give insight into what happens when one drug isnt enough. Dont resort to drugs to get away from life, because then when they wear off it always ends up being worse. Reality will always be the hardest thing to deal with, But one day ur going to have to deal with it!

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  • VegetableLasagna

    everyone smokes weed. there are no actual proven facts that it does anything bad to you except for the fact that your inhaling smoke.. anywho i wouldnt worry about the fact that uve gotten high a few times to get away from your problems. alot of people do it for alot worse than to forget a car crash and your neighbours problems.. i get high at least once a day, not to get away from anything just cuz i like weed and i still live a normal life. Id say its completly normal just stay away from REAL drugs, thats just stupid.

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    • No worries, wedd is the only drug I do! I will never ever try the hard ones... no friggin way!

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  • tasha20

    i smoke weed to get away from problms and they still there i did it ever day wen i got kick out of my mum and move from place to place to 4got about bad things they get longer weed dose not help you can get depressed that what it dose to me first time when i did i was laughing at ever thing and then upset lost sum of my m8 what go out my own at all but i am of it now well trying sum people say you can cum off it easy but ithink ther wrong

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  • cgirl123456

    Life is hard, but maybe you can improve your life without pot.

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  • heartsheartshearts

    it's normal that because of stress, you resort to drugs.

    but i am telling you, DON'T DO IT. in the long run, you will regret it. marijuana only has short term happy effects. if you're stressed, write about it. take a walk. don't use drugs. they will make your life even more miserable in the long run.

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    • Thanks. What are some of the long term effects?

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      • Breathewithme

        One of the long term effects I've noticed with my friends is simply that they are constantly using marijuana to escape their worries. They might not be addicted to weed but they're addicted to the lifestyle of using weed to relax and avoid dealing with the realities of life. For a long time I thought weed was good for me because I would have anxiety attacks and it was one of the only things to calm me down, but smoking would only perpetuate my problems and the temporary relief would disappear by the morning leaving me prone to stress and anxiety all over again. It's better to address why you want to escape and work on your mental health than resorting to a substance as a quick fix.

        I'm a musician who hasn't used alcohol and weed for almost a year now and im starting to think life is truly better without it, No matter how much I miss it haha. I don't regret it at all, because I think weed and LSD fundamentally changed the way I look at the world for the better, but I respect these drugs as eye-opening vacations, not as a 30 year home mortgage.

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  • verselda

    I cant say i understand what you have been though because i dont know you but i do understand what weed does!
    I smoked weed for 6 years and this is what i learnt.
    1. Men can smoke pot women shouldnt.
    Why you ask?
    For the reason your smoking it. Women are driven by emotions and it is not good to be using because of depression.
    Men smoke pot to relax!
    2. Its not going to solve your problems but only make them worse!
    It doesnt do damage like presciption drugs but it can do psycological damage.

    Remember i am not a doctor, i am a girl who is proud to say iam clean.
    It is a easy addiction.
    Oh and with the other drugs you want to try, you will like them too.
    This is why they are called drugs! they are addictive so if you want to try somthing, id say 99%% chance of you getting hooked and it will take about 5-10 yrs to stop them, imagine that!

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    • Candygrapes81710

      This is so sexist! Everyone feels feelings. It's ignorant and stupid to say that only women are susceptible to their emotions and that the only reason a woman would use marijuana is to escape her reality. Men do that too, and women sometimes just wanna relax and have a good time.
      It's mentalities like yours that make the fight for equality so difficult. Embarrassing. You're a woman, you should be supporting fellow women; not trying to stop them from progressing in society by saying things like "women are driven by emotion." That's ridiculous.

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    • sparrowfeed

      yes, but when someone uses it to 'relax' (which i know some male friends to do.. my female friends never use pot except recreationally) they are also using it to escape problems--to a lesser degree. when someone is toking 2-3 times a day to 'relax', it means they have trouble relaxing on their own, without the drug. and this is not normal.

      i would agree that pot and being a woman is a volatile combination, but from overall observation, i've found a LOT more potheads and chronic users to be men.

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      • Enoch_Ingram

        I beg to differ, but I'm a guy and I smoke to 'escape' as well and I've been doing so since middle school. It does psychologically do something to you it doesn't matter on gender because we all have the same emotions just some stronger than others. I happen to be one of those and pot doesn't necessarily relief me of my distress but it does help for a period of time.

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  • sparrowfeed

    no offense but these little events you went through (the car, the neighbours) are a horrible excuse for problems...

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  • eijnn

    I'm sure there are a bunch of druggies and stoners who will never get anywhere in their pathetic lives, that WILL agree with you.

    There are other ways to escape reality then drugs. Safe ways that will not alter your body. Write stories, paint, draw. If these aren't things you're good at, then READ! Play video games. Watch movies. Healthy hobbies that you are interested in help you escape reality just as well as drugs do, if not more because you can quit anytime. And hobbies aren't harmful.

    Marijuana has horrible side-effects. DEPRESSION gets worse while using marijuana, so what you're feeling now will just get WORSE! Look up the side-effects. Paranoia is another side-effect. It alters the chemicals in your brain. If you get high off something, that means it is harmful! There is no "natural high" like how marijuana is supposed to be. It is harming you. It is addicting, and other drugs are just worse. Stop before you get deep into it and can't stop. And try and get your man to stop too.

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    • stokedscooter

      all those hobbies are funner with drugs...........

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  • Galaxy500

    Ugh, okay why the HELL are you going to do drugs and prescriptions that only harm your body?!?! Yes, weed does that! And screw all the lame-asses out there who would like to disagree with me. All it does is help you to forget shit you were supposed to remember....and makes sex feel REALLY good lol. Anyhow: Listen, problems are going to happen and stuff is going to get you down - that is life BUT chances are there is someone out there who is worse off than you. Please, think positively. Also, weed is just like drinking - you do it for the time being, but I guess with weed you eventually forget about what it is you were thinking about in the first place. I would recommend you to start taking this stuff called GABA, it's a branched chain amino acid that our body naturally produces to calm us down when we are put in high stressed, fight or flight situations. Sometimes we might not produce enough because your body isn't at it's most healthiest. The bottle is white and the lettering is red. It reads "GABA Anxiety Stress Control" and works within 10 to 12 minutes. Best of all - you are yourself! You don't become a Zombie and you don't have depressing thoughts. I got on it last month and called my doctor and told her I am no longer taking Wellbutrin because this stuff is holistic medicine and it works wonders!

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    • Thanks for the advice. I will look into it for sure. You know, I was watching a movie about weed, called "The Union." It's new, and you can rent it. They say pot is not bad for you at all. Interesting documentary. So I figured smoking a little weed every once in a while shouldn't be too bad...

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      • Galaxy500

        well... think about all those Micheal Moor documentaries... did he represent both sides of the arguments fairly and tell his audience everything? That's right, no he didn't. Documentaries have a lot of room for being bias. Keep that in mind - would you cover all the bad side-effects of weed if you were for it? Probably not.

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