Get spanked by your wife?

What started out as sexual exploration and experimenting; by a curious,eager couple, many years ago has morphed into more of a "female takes charge' relationship. My wife found that it was rather simple for her to control my wild-side with firm-handed,strict discipline; whenever needed; so now I have to drop my pants;whenever she saysand get taken across her knees; for a thorough bare-assed hairbrush spanking.Practice makes perfect{for her,anyway}. It is no joke when that hard brush attends to its business; so well and I end up pleading in vain,kicking my legs and crying, rather frequently; while my behind gets well-reddened and bruised. When she is finished with me, she is sure that I've learned a good lesson and won't be repeating the mistake;too soon. She's the boss and I now know it! Of course; this kind of lifestyle isn't for everyone; but its made me a much more attentative and caring husband'sensitive to her needs. I no longer just think of my own selfish pleasure in bed; either- now she gets well-pampered and pleasured; by a dutiful ,loving man, to her hearts content- and its all because she isn't afraid to use that awful hairbrush; when it suits her? When she orders me to go get the hairbrush or tells me to drop to my knees;before her; for some worshipping , my reply is the same,"Yes,ma'am!" And we BOTH love it.

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  • embarrassedtoadmit

    Wow, I was so embarrassed about this and now I'm curious. My wife spanks me all the time and I have been just too embarrassed to even talk about it. I got caught doing something even more embarrassing. It hurt her and I was falling all over myself to mend it. She told me since I had acted immaturely she was going to spank me like she does the children. I reluctantly agreed but took my position over her knee like the children do. MAN that smarts. I kept reaching around and stopping her so she took off her robe tie and bound my hands in front. Her spare leg went over mine and I couldn't budge. She uses a hairbrush just like your wife and I can't believe how much that hurts. The children always end up crying and now I know why. I'm doubly embarrassed by the way I acted. It felt like I started bawling right away and I couldn't stop even after she finished. She blew my nose like she does with the children and let me snuggle on her lap while she brought me down from my trauma.I had thought it was a one time thing but even now I get spanked fairly often. I'm afraid if I don't cooperate that she will tell my mom or someone else. I've been living with this shame that she spanks me. Sorry to get off track but I just had to talk about it when I saw this.

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    • beatbutt

      I'd be happy to stand in and get my bare ass spanked over her knee for you! :-)

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  • leighanne_cd

    My wife routinely spanks me. I ask to be spanked as well when I know I need a spanking. We have been married over 33 years and we both agree to a Female Led Marriage. I obey her now.

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  • robin62

    My wife can put me over her knee like any naughty child. She does it at her discression and always on my bare bottom. I am so embarassed since she does not care if any one else is there or not. Her mother and my mother have witnessed me being chastized and just love the idea that she has such control over me. I have spent many an afternoon in my corner bawling like a child not permitted to rub my oh so sore bottom

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    • timace

      Hi both my step mom and mother n law have seen wife spank me. So embarrassing.

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  • markiee

    For me it started on our wedding night as I came out of our hotel bathroom after my shower and at 54 she still spanks on.

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    • timace

      Wife started spanking me right before married.

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  • Jonni5

    I strayed for spankings got caught now my wife has been taking a leather belt to my butt and it really is helping me I'm so great full that she understood and she is seeing a nicer me .this post helped me show her it's kinda ok to punish me in a way I understand thank you poster of this message my butt maybe very very sore but I'm feeling better and she see it thank you hun(wife)

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  • massiveaccordian

    would love to know about what you and the wife do. esp the spencer paddle please write me back.I am a submissive male too.

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    • wmcl1973

      I presume you are asking me as I wrote I get paddled bare and consensually--for conduct with male friends of which my wife is offended--There is not much to tell--We both know at the same time when a bare paddling has to settle things--Not much talk about it as its always been the same--I want to take it right away--I just shower quick bend over right out of the shower hold my shins and she paddles my bare butt and it hurts like crazy---If you wonder why I take that position its because that how my high school football paddled us---I hope I answered your question thanks

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      • massiveaccordian

        so she doesn't use a special kind of paddle? I am always looking for new ways to be spanked. both of us enjoy being spanked.she likes a belt for herself.I am going to try the wet out of the shower thing and maybe a hair brush.If you have any other moves let me know

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        • magic7

          Have wife tie you to the shower head and whip your ass with water spraying. Get a rubber paddle or whip and get it good. She can use her hand as well. My wife jacked me off water whipping me then fucked me with a dildo.

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  • bear1951

    I am sure its normal If you and your wife are good with it---its fine--no one should be struck against their will--I am hardly a guy to judge another guy getting a paddling from his wife----No one knows---but for too much drinking and other kind of wild behaviors with male friends--which offens my more religious wife--i take a bare paddling---it sure is not teasing or erotic---Whe is damn angry and I take it willingly ---She is a great wife---so if I once in a while need a punishment paddling so it is--- When i am doing the drinking and stuff with the guys I am thinking--"it won't hurt so bad" When I got it coming and am showering right before--I am damning myself cause its going to hurt alot--Luckily we do not have to wait when I have earned it I shower and get it bare right after----It settles things completely and no lingering anger or harsh feelings--She has releived her anger and I have paid the price I know I got coming When our children were at home i would come home and noon to take a padling and that made me nervous---right away is better----though my butt hurts every time!

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  • woodlawn

    I can't say you are not normal as in a long and very happy marriage I have gotten my bare ass paddled by my wife very infrequently-----Yours seems awfully frequent but since I have taken a few bare ass paddlings--I can not criticize you!---I deserved every one i got we both knew when a paddling has to settle things there is never any argument about it

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  • magic7

    On my 30th birthday I asked my wife for a present. Being in a giving mood J didn't flinch when I asked her for a hot suck and a spanking. Surprised that I offered to sacrifice my bare ass to her wrath J had been suggestively asking to spank me for my bad attitudes for a long time. J got a big smile on her face promising my fantasy would come true after I showered when I got home from work. All day long I was excited about my fantasy come true. J was an excellent fellatrix but refused to swallow preferring to use my come in other inventive ways. She forced me to swallow more than she has ever taken down her Throat. Whenever she allowed me to fuck her I was always on top so that my semen would not stream out of her pussy. She would give me a push on my shoulders inviting me under the sheets to do the "cleanup". Pushing the back of my head guiding me into her crotch she would invite me to suck and swallow all of my own come out of her pussy and then lick her to orgasm. I hurried home from work as J greeted me at the door with a kiss telling me to get in the shower because she had a birthday surprise planned. Getting out of the shower with a huge erection I licked my lips wondering what J had in mind. J was still dressed in her casual shorts and shirt refusing to get naked with me priding herself at being the ultimate cock tease. I was disappointed because she had a great set of breasts and a body that kept me up all night. Smiling J ordered me to lay on my back on the bed and get ready for my fantasy to come true. Married to the most experienced oral expert that has ever sucked my cock I was looking forward to one hell of a birthday. Grabbing the base of my cock she started squeezing, holding off any kind of premature ejaculation swallowing the rest of my shaft J started rubbing her sharp teeth on the sensitive underside of my cock while she was sucking up and down. Immediately I was rendered helpless by her mouth becoming her oral slave. Being Butch J rarely sucked my cock preferring to have her own pussy licked and receiving all the pleasure herself. I only got sucked on rare occasions so that she could show off her expertise and keep me addicted to pleasure. This time she sucked me with a vengeance almost as if she was punishing my cock. I was completely under control at the mercy of her mouth. Sensing that I was about to come she spit out my cock just as I began shooting my semen into the palm of her other hand. Even after I stopped squirting she was squeezing every last drop into her receiving hand. Like every guy after he comes you lose a lot of your sexual fantasies to keep going. Reminding me that the second part of my fantasy was to get spanked Judy looked at me with that nasty smile ordering me to roll over on my belly. Reluctantly I rolled over as Judy began massaging my own semen into skin of my bare cheeks. Remember I had never been spanked by my wife before even for a birthday so I had no idea what it was going to feel like. After massaging my own come into my ass I thought it was going to be a sensual spanking but I knew my wife was chomping on the bit to finally give me payback for all the problems I caused her in the past. Without hesitation the spanking began as the hair raised on the back of my head as I felt J raise her hand high in the air and lower it is hard as she could on my bare ass cheek. The loud noise of my cheeks getting spanked and the electric shock that ran through my nerves from my ass to my head raised an alarm. Showing no mercy and repeating striking my cheeks back-and-forth by the fourth slap I started crying out and wiggling my ass trying to avoid the blows. I knew this was not going to be a sensual spanking but payback for an accumulation of pent up wrath that was inside my wife. Asking her for a birthday spanking ended up being an open invitation to give her an excuse for payback time. Determined to make sure that I paid the price the blows lasted long after 30 and beyond. I was getting treated to an ass blistering that I have been deserving for a long time. I tried not to resist keeping my hands off my cheeks as I suffered through my punishment. I actually respected my wife and know I was learning how much wrath I was actually deserving to receive. It seem like the spanking went on forever but I was sure it only lasted five minutes when she finally stopped. My body continued bouncing up-and-down from phantom blows as I cried out in tears from my first real adult punishment spanking. J was actually a little speechless and maybe a little embarrassed after finally getting a chance to beat my ass into submission. Ordering me to lay there for a while and think about what just happened she said she would call for me in about an hour to come downstairs and have a "discussion". After she left the room I got curious and went into the bathroom to look at the damage in the mirror. I couldn't believe my ass was completely red covered with full handprints from my wife like a signature autograph. I felt quite ashamed and sad that my wife had to spank me that hard yet deep down I knew that I deserved every slap and more. I had to lay back down on the bed because my ass was on fire from the spanking and it would've been impossible to sit down for quite a while. I heard my wife call from downstairs telling me to get my ass down there and stay naked. Timidly I walked down the stairs and as soon as I saw her face I was already tearfully apologizing for everything I've done to piss her off. Sitting in her favorite chair she calls the Queens chair she ordered me to kneel down before her so that she could discuss our future. Ordering me to shut up and not talk she explained that she was considering divorcing me if I continue being the same or she offered to continue being married if I excepted her terms of being her slave. Promising that the spanking I received today was just the beginning of many because one spanking was never going to account for all the things she was disappointed about in our relationship. Confessing that I was not the first guy in her life she has ever physically disciplined and that she knows tricks about administering a whipping that I would've never imagined. Sliding off her shorts and panties she grabbed the back of my head pulling my mouth into her crotch inviting me to please her orally. The smells and tastes of her pussy sealed the deal and I decided beg her to stay.

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