Gender blender!!!

have you ever thought to yourselves that you wanted to change your sex?

i'm a girl and sometimes i definitely wanna be a guy. i'm not a tomboy or lesbian or whatever, im sure of it. I wear dresses, make-up and do girl stuffs but it doesn't seem right..haha :P

I envy guys. they never have to worry about the way they look, will never get MENstruation,which I hate about being a girl (i always get menstrual cramps which really hurts bad), and they never have to endure the pain when pregnant..

i always dreamed of being a boy even just for once and i always thought of what i would look like if i were born like that.

is it normal for me to think this stupid things? i told it to some of my friends and they think i'm weird.haha

help guys!!

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  • jucedaguy

    If I was a girl for a day, the original owner would be getting at least one part that I know off back in very sore condition and more worn out than an old Buick. Just sayin.

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  • panvicka

    ye i wonder what it is like not to care about my leg hair, getting pregnant, good-loking skin/nails/body... it is much better i guess.

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  • fatty

    This proves that guy r better than girls in every way

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  • Ryuhei

    Only when im on my peroid and if i ever give birth probably then

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  • jrphotographer

    I know! We have so many problems. Guys lives just seem so much..simpler.

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  • BeeAgent

    I know being a girls sounds hard; periods, giving birth all that stuff all we have to cope with is the occasional morning wood!

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  • Schythl

    There's nothing at all stupid about wanting to be of the opposite gender. I find the idea of being a girl awesome, but it isn't something I could keep up all the time; I like my guy life too. :P

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  • Vyvienne

    It's completely normal. I personally was born the wrong biological gender, and can say that it really is horrible being male. You're always expected to be dirty and do dirty work by modern society, then support your family, and get snobbish girls pregnant. Even if you try to conform to society, it's considered "unmuasculine" and everything. And then, during puberty, most boys grow hair all over and look like gorillas, and you get a fat belly. (I don't, 'cause I have more estrogen than testosterone). And you basically turn into a damn slob. I'm not trying to say it's wrong to wish to be male sometimes, but if you really want to try it, modern society won't frown down upon you, or commit hate crimes if you learn how to wear a short wig, thicken your eyebrows with eyebrow pencil, wear pants, and over all neglect your skin. Try it. Dress up in Drag and wear a tight sports brassier et cetera. Then go to a mall for a few hours, and see if you like being called "he" "him" et cetera. Thick, dull-colored hoodies work well, by the way, especially if you pull the hood over your hair. Also pack your underwear with a tissue paper bulge.... wow I'm getting really into detail. Sorry. But basically girls can be dainty and free, while men have to be hypermasculin to avoid homophobic questions. It's a sad society today. Have you ever noticed that it's not okay for men to wear dress skirts (not mens' skirts like kilts and lungis), but it's totally okay, and even common for women to wear pants? They may be different, but women are freer to conform to gender stereotypes than men. And in this way, I think modern society has much to learn

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  • Hello,
    I got exactly the same as you have, except the fact i am a boy. My opinion is girls can dress up and wear make-up and wear nice clothes, and boys dont have to worry about that stuff.
    I was so relieved that i wasn't the only one that felt like that becouse i looked up on the internet and found nothing, and suddenly i found this! Like poisonflowers said, changing when you want would be Awesome!
    ,Me

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  • PoisonFlowers

    Yeah, I've always felt like that. My ideal situation would be where I could become a guy or a girl outwardly at will. Unfortunately, that's not possible :P

    Even when I was young, I went through a period where I would say to everyone that "I am a boy" lol it seems that I've stayed the same. Sometimes, I like being a girl and other times, I feel like a guy. I don't think it's weird.

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  • Clayman88

    That's normal. Back in school I use to want to be a woman. I am straight but I thought why can't guys get all dolled up at times too? I was always tall and masculine so I guess that's why I envied women who got to be pretty and show emotions. In my last two years of school I didn't care what people thought anymore and I was always the Goth kid so I went all out and wore black eyeliner, black or red lipstick, and many different colors of nail polish even pink. Once I wore a black dress. If someone picked on me for it. I would kick their ass like a man. All in all I think it was a great experience. I got to feel somewhat of what it was like to be a woman. I would often be late for school cuz it took so long to put the damn make-up on. lol. Now I dress normal. It's just easier and you really can't get away with that sort of thing in the real world unless you plan on going full blow sex change.

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  • Avo77

    Can we trade bodies pls I want to be a girl =D

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  • alexisfreak

    Being a guy is so hard. Getting a girl to actually like you. You know, I would like to go into a girl's head for once and see what they are thinking about you. Do they like you? Hate you? That is very interesting. But still, you don't want to be a guy. It is extremely hard. We are expected to be good at sports. We are expected to be strong. We are expected to be popular. I think girls get it easy. They just have to have good looks, and they get it all.

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  • TalktoFrank

    Haha i'm dude and i have had regular thoughts in the past about how i would like to change sex for even just a day to see what it was like... lol in my opinion it is pretty normal seeing as we had a class discussion about it and we all decided that we would like to see what it would be like to be the other sex lol
    Frank...:)

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  • StarTeddy

    I'm pretty sure everyone's wondered about how it would be like to be the opposite sex at least once in their lives. You, the grass is greener and stuff like that.

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    • StarTeddy

      *you know

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  • skewder

    I think that its pretty normal, but few talk about it. I'm a guy. I'm not exactly the Alpha type but I'm a nature/outdoorsman and otherwise I spend my time with artistic pursuits. I like girls, and the only guys i like are waaaaay feminine. sometimes I kinda wish i were the opposite gender too.

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  • deathboy222

    ya...some people have that rare case where the guy/girl feels that they're in the wrong sex's body...sometimes i get that i feel like i should be a girl

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  • wubi15

    i am a guy, 19, and sometimes i think of what i would be if i become a girl. Its not that im gay. I have a girlfriend for 4yrs now. Im just curious what would i be when i become a girl cos i love their femininity. Especially when it comes to sex. LOL. :p

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  • Actually I think it is pretty sophisticated. It shows great empathy & imagination. Still, don't throw out the girl stuff altogether. The guy end is no bargain either.

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    • Jen118584

      I know what you mean. I have a strong personality and sometimes I think I'd be better suited as a guy...but at the same time, I am kind of girly and have a serious mothering instinct.

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