Gay,straight,bi, i just dont know

hello there is it normal users
well first things first im 19 and engaged and dont get me wrong i love her with every ounce of my breath but i wasnt all ways like this coming out of highschool i considered my self as gay! through college i thought of my self as gay i even had a boy friendto the point thins time last year i cheated on him.

i know what your all thinking how could you cheat its wrong but i cheated on him with the women im with know but i broke up with her in january just gone because i couldnt trust my self or i didnt know what i wanted anyways we finally got back togehter some 5 mounths ago now were engaged and i know what i want i ant to spend the rest of my life with her.

so on my final note i have one question

Is This Normal?

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Based on 51 votes (29 yes)
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Comments ( 12 )
  • Somone

    im having the same doubt u r i even posted a story titled gay bi straigth im not in a relationship but i still am doubting..

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  • Cheet0

    At least in a partial way myself too w same question

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  • Nokiot9

    If ur questioning ur sexuality on such a deep level you really shouldn't be getting married. At least, if u do, make sure ur spouse or fiancée knows about it. Honesty is the best policy

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  • dork

    Totally normal, except, I would put off the engagement until I was a little older and have things completely straightened out 'no pun intended'. Because a wedding is going to cost both your families alot of $ for it.

    You're young, You should experiment around, that's what youth is for! Enjoying yourself. In this situation you must think of yourself first. Not what your parents want, not what your fiance wants, not what your friends want.
    Take your time, your only 19.

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  • LovingTogether

    Nothing to worry about. You may be bisexual, not gay. So am I. I prefer women, but when we have a man visit for my wife, I usually get involved with him (if he allows it.) Like Woody Allen says, Bisexuals have twice as many opportunities for dates. My wife enjoys watching two men having sex. I suspect many women do. It's normal. Freud thought all humans are bisexual. Just enjoy it!

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  • lickitgood

    Dude this is the exact same way my life is right now...I got a girl I love..but then again I think I'm gay. I dnt know what the fuck is wrong with me but if u figure out ur problems post back cause I could use the help

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  • yoyoyou

    totally normal.

    in fact, i dont think anyone is really 100% one or the other, and i think it can change over time.

    im only in high school though, so dont take my word for it.

    but like, i think basically everyone can be bisexual and is a little bit. i consider myself straight, but am still attracted to woman somewhat. and who knows? maybe in a few years i'll decide that im mostly only interested in woman.

    i don't think sexuality is something that should be labeled, and frankly, it shouldn't matter much. just do what you like. be with who you love. keep an open mind. dont waste your time questioning what your 'true' orientation is. just focus on the people.

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  • tragiclettuce

    Judging from your spelling you are not nearly intelligent enough to be getting married or do anything really.

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  • niturk20

    The thoughts are normal, but you need to realize cheating is not. Love is something that makes it nearly impossible to want to cheat.

    If you really love this woman you need to know that you truly do love her other wise you'll never be happy.

    A quick side note, a good friend of mine told me that if you hold your loved one in each others arms for 20 seconds every time you meet your relationship is more likely to last. I asked then jokingly well what if you count? He replied if you count than there are some big issues.

    My point is try it if you find yourself counting you are not in love, you should be able to hold her forever, which in marriage you do.

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  • Somone

    it's totally normal to doubt about ur sexuallity .. but dont marry her if u r not shure!what if in 5 years u start a family with her and u realise u r gay??? u shouldnt get married if u r not sure about it!!

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  • rina123

    yeah its normal, this day and age no one no's if their gay or strait... all i know is if you love the woman you are with now and want to be with her forever, your question doesnt really need to be answered.

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