Gay stereotypes fit me

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It's pretty well known that it's hard to pinpoint most gay men at the drop of a hat now, I hope. We ALL know that movies make them out to be something they aren't, et cetera, et cetera.

.. but then there's me. I've been looking at myself a lot recently and I'm no longer surprised that gaydars damn well near explode upon landing on me.

Is it normal? Or.. at the very least, is it okay?

I'm a bit feminine. I just like to look nice. Most of my friends are girls. And there are times I slip into the "flamboyant" category. I can't help but feel slightly ashamed every time I come across one of those blogs or a question on here about it and everyone says something in the nature of "I've never seen a guy like that! I'd be down right ashamed! yadda yadda"

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  • UliNalaMansae
    12 years ago

    in china, the word for you is flower pot. ever heard a girl say "why are all the good ones gay or married"?

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  • nkwacky
    10 years ago

    I'm gay too. But I don't resemble the stereotype.
    You're normal, I guess.. But as gay men, we are guys who fall for other guys. If you are effeminate, then why would any gay guy find you attractive? I mean, gay men like butch men, not someone who acts like a woman..
    Not hating on you Bro, just my thoughts..

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  • justcarrots
    11 years ago

    Sexuality is socially constructed. Dont compare yourself to this society's standards and let it negatively shape your self image-if possible ;)

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  • ALCOHOLPOISONING
    11 years ago

    lol i bet ur a neeerd too

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  • RappyisAmused
    11 years ago

    I'm gay, and I don't really act like a stereotype. Though I know there are some gays who act more.. effeminate? But yeah, it's normal.

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  • littlemissgiggles
    11 years ago

    You sound exactly like one of my friends haha :) but alot of girls actually like that sort of thing in a guy, so I'd say that it's definately normal

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Like a wise man once said :

    Any port in the storm.

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    I've been with a gay boy it was good when I didn't care he was gay

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    Lady boy

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  • firefly88
    12 years ago

    You prob are attracted to and will end up with a dikey type of woman. Seems like the girlish boys and the boyish girls are a match made in heaven. And oh ya, she's gonna toss you around.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Lawl. That's comforting.

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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago

    Since working out that I'm bisexual I haven't changed how I act. If someone falls in love with me I want them to fall in love with me, not an image which I have been putting on.

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  • GhostGuy764
    12 years ago

    Lol I'm the same way!!! XD

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    Be you. Diversity keeps life entertaining.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's normal, just as there's a lot of non-campy gay men, there are also campy straight men. I'm a little bit like that too but I think that's because I like the 80s a lot.

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