Gay friend steals my straight ex

i feel well sorry for you, your ex bi (or gay)
and you obviously care for him very badly.
i suppose it is normal, but there is nothing to fell bad about. You'll get over him.

To all the people who are calling her ex gay:

This guy is not gay, for one
He is bi.
Bi curious. Experminting.
If this guy has had sex with women he is not"gay", but bi, and yes, most people in the world are bi, and many dont know it, intill they have sexuall contact with the same sex and oppistite.

Your "best friend" was inconsiderate, even mean to you & you deserve better. Had he been a woman and slept with your ex, how would you feel (betrayed)? Your ex's sexual orientation is obvious.

He could be gay or bi. He could simply be experimenting. Actually, a majority of straight men enjoy prostate stimulation.

wow thats a messed up story. Sorry for your pain, i wish you the best of luck in a finding a man who doesnt like wee wees

He is obviously not right in the head. I am sure you enjoy his company very much but don't mistake this for friendship because he has shown his willingness to put your feelings aside for his own needs.
Why do you wonder if you ex is gay, if he had sex with another guy, he is definitely gay.
I think the best question you can ask yourself right now, is why am i caught up with so many unhealthy people in my life.
Do you enjoy being a victim? I am not trying to be negative, it is a very good question to ask yourself. I had alot of bad things happen to me at one point in my life and it took a long time to figure out that i was doing it to myself because i got excitement from it and i liked collecting sympathy. Not saying that is only answer, but might want to evaluate the choices you are making.
I would make new friends and forget about these people who are not bringing good things into your life. Find out who you are and be happy in living a loving healthy life with no drama.

If he likes dick then there isn't anything you can do and it's not you.

Ur bff is fucked up. No matter who ur bff (boy or girl) he just too much!! Make a r/s with ur ex bf just too much.he don't respect u and as for ur exbf just get over that guy is suck! Just get over he is also freak like u bff..hey girl be strong :)

Need to see a counselor. If you're a student, it'll be cheap to go to the one at your school. Go now.

Normal or not, your situation is not unusual. Sadly, many people find themselves with partners who are actually gay, lesbian, or bi. I know. Been there. Continuing to have feelings of attraction is normal, though it is good not to act on them. My suggestion for you or anyone who finds themselves in this situation is to contact the Straight Spouse Network. It is a wonderful peer support group on and off line. Just remember, you are not weird and you are not alone!

Maybe he's bi.

omg thats cute...but maybe hes bicurious XD:)

well maybe hes just mad at u...or like wat shiranaru said hes jus experimenting...alot of guys do that....i did that b 4

I think most men/people are bisexual if they allow themselves open to the idea. People can and do love different types and genders.
Don't take it personal.
I'm not gay, and I only want a man, but some people experiment or allow themselves to have sex with whoever connects with them in a sexual way...
Some are repulsed by it...
There is nothing you could've done.
Also, gay men are KNOWN FOR "STEALING" STRAIGHT MEN. Its a challenge.

Your ex probably isn't "gay" but a freak.
And sexually open to things you were unaware of.
Many men are freaks and don't share so they can still have a girlfriend/wife.

Haven't you read down low brother?
Also see the movie Cover Up.

You ex licks the chode. He's a homosexual.

As far as your problem is. I think most guys are sluts anyway. I think it's just a sex thing. It's not like they are living together or planing to get married.

Get over it. It's no reflection on you and you did say that you didn't want to get back with the ex did you? It's a guy thing, not like they are in love.

honestly you people make me mad.

Gay is not someone who has sex with the same sex.

It's a lifestyle choice

There are plenty of people out there that have sex with the same gender sometimes but identify as straight.

There are same sex relationships that don't have anything to do with the gay community and don't identify themselves as gay.

I have a friend that dates girls plays football and considers himself straight but now and again he likes to have sex with a guy.

When I asked him about it he says he is attracted to the guys personality and that is what turns him on. It's not about dicks or anything it's about being intimate with someone you like and want to be close to.

I have a girlfriend and I can understand his feelings and his desirs. Not like I haven't thought about being intimate with a guy. I think it crosses the minds of most guys. My problem is that I am worried if I try it I will like it too much.