Gay & horny 24/7...after 10 years???

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Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for over 11 years now and sex has never really been a HUGE part of our relationship. However, after 10 years of not really being interested in sex, I want it all the time now. It's like, suddenly a few days ago, I can't get enough of him. I realize that after not having sex for a while that the drive can return as if we were a new couple all over again but this is getting to the point that he is getting pissed off and saying that I am smothering him but I don't know what to do to stop it. I can't get him to actually HAVE intercourse with me because he always has an excuse which he claims he can't just change our relationship overnight like that but always used to say he wanted sex anytime I wanted it. I am so confused. I want him so bad but it's like he doesn't care about me anymore. He assures me that he loves me and wants me but won't, for lack of a better phrase, penetrate me. I am getting sick of mutual masturbation, I want sex. What can I do???? is it normal to feel this way?

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  • Maid_in_Pink
    13 years ago

    Both man and woman, both gay and straight, all want and desire sex. Each individual is different however and I feel it's perfectly normal to want to have actual intercourse. He may not feel that way however and while you're needs are important you have to consider his aswell. Sit down and have a talk and find out what's up, might be good news, might be bad news.

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