Furry/gay/internet love

Ok, I'm a furry, I'm gay, and I met someone on the internet that I love, but the trouble is, I'm scared to tell anyone. I was raised in pretty much an anti-gay society and I'm scared people will hate me if they found out how I really am. I've been this way for almost a year now, maybe longer, and Its really starting to hurt me. Is this normal? What should I do.

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Based on 78 votes (59 yes)
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  • 107295

    I myself am a furry, and a bisexual and I know how you feel about "coming out" in anti-gay conditions. My parents are homophobic (hate gays) and I feel that you should come out only when you're ready and when you feel like it. Take your time.

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  • Dnile13chik

    Being gay is normal, just come out. Being a furry is a fetish, no one really needs to know. That should stay private.

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  • infinity526

    just come out, and learn how to defend urself first so you can put an ass whipping on haters if need be.

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    • Scarred4life

      Agreed. Like they said, out with it!

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  • wolffurry1

    i Know how you feel about the Anti-Gay society. A gay furry in scotland is quite noticeable since i wear a collar. Any way i think you should just come out, find your own way. I came out by wearing a collar into school ( if you are wondering i am 17. just in case someone decides im too young to be here) In the end people do find out anyway so i would say: tell your most trusted friend it can help relieve some of the stress you have and depending on the confidence boost you get lead you to coming out to everyone. You probably will receive bullshit about being gay but that is to be expected from people who have very closed minds.

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  • gabi123

    ummm you should not come out who people you know will try to judge u or even hurt u keep it private if you really need to tell someone tell somebody who you trust wont judge u and will accept you for who u are.

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  • Jcandy

    Be gay and proud! I know how you feel, I'm having a bit of trouble coming out myself. Plus, there is a great furry community online! I wish you the best of luck! :-)

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  • MercedesBenz

    Agreed with the above. Come out as gay. Not so much the furry, and don't wear your damn tail in public. My friend did that to me, it was ok, but spare your friends the 50 questions.

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  • VerdeGato

    Come out with the gay thing. Furry don't tell anyone. Finding internet love? Wierd.

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  • Cosmicgiggle

    Popularity? Hmmmm. Maybe or maybe not

    Respected? Indeed

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  • QueenB

    If they don't accept you they arn'y your friends, unfortunatley family can sometimes stray but hopefully they will be with you all the way, in the end what difference should it make to anyone else who you spend your life with or go to bed with.

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  • Jeanzz

    Hey you should come out and tell the world :3 if they cant love you for who you are...then are you sure they really cared?

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