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I have a low libido, if it all really. I find that the areas of the body used to expel waste from the body to be disgusting.
On this site there are sexually active people (quite enthusiastic). What is it about sex that is so exciting and enjoyable?
If you have such a low sex drive, it will be hard to explain. Sex is intimate and feels wonderful when done right. I don't think about "germs" and stuff like that during sex. If sex with a non-STD carrying person was somehow unclean, none of us would be here. There's nothing gross about it.
Sex is the single best experience. You could masturbate and have an orgasm.....now multiply that by infinity, take it to the depths of forever, and you still barely have a glimpse of what I'm talking about.
Multiplication by infinity is paradoxical. Paradoxical means impossible. Does that mean it's impossible for you to get laid? :)
What I'm saying is, you're over doing it. Sex can be pretty accurately simulated by wanking, because sex is wanking by vagina.
Of course it's better, but only about 4 or 5 times so.
Meh, some people are just super horny and like to do the deed as often as possible with anyone willing. If you've ever had an orgasm, well, it's a great feeling and some people just can't get enough. I don't really care that much for sex. It's nice and all but I can live without it. For many reasons that I won't get into, I used to see it as way more important than it really is, for me anyway. I guess other peeps really like the closeness and stuff that it provides. Or something.
It is like trying to explain why a peice of chocolate tasts good to a person who has never eaten it. It just isn't really something that can be properly explained, it's something that has to be experienced.
I don't get the whole friends w/ benefits thing myself.
For the sex to be good I need to feel more than just a physical attraction to a woman. If I feel a connection then I want to pursue it, meaning relationship. If I don't care about a person then I can't get aroused enough. It just feels sort of awkward or contrived. I don't quite know how to put it into words exactly. Just ends up feeling kind of empty. Easier to just masturbate until I fall in love again if ever.
It's an intense cathartic relief, like the wake of a funeral, but pleasurable.
I think it's more about the connection between two people. Whether you are life long lovers or new acquaintances, a few intimate moments can be a wonderful reprieve from an otherwise dull and difficult life.
It not only feels good for you, but it is also a chance to make someone else feel good. How can that be wrong?