Friends with benefits

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Is it normal that theres this guy (soon to be my boyfriend in most like 48 hours) to have a friend with benefits ?

This "friend" doesnt like me for the fact that he likes me and they both are always soo close to each other when I see them in the halls/lunchroom.

Is it normal for them to be that close, or should I give up on him? Please give me advice.. I like him but at the same time i dont wany to be the one looking stupid in this relationship

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  • poof!gone122
    13 years ago

    number 1: i don't understand your question.
    number 2: friends with benefits is the most retarded thing i have ever heard of. it's just a realy lame excuse for sex.
    number 3: you must be really desperate to go for a guy that doesn't even have the balls to stick with one girl. if he has a friend with benefits, then how do you know that he won't do it when ya'll are together?

    just something to think about.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    13 years ago

    First of all, you're assuming he'll be your boyfriend.

    Second of all, you're doing this KNOWING he's got another friend (girl?) he's very close to that you don't get along with.

    The real question is... What the hell are you doing?

    I mean seriously? You're putting yourself in a position where your relationship WILL have problems.

    He's just one boy. You might think he's the best thing since sliced bread but... the reality is... you're throwing yourself out for a guy who isn't going to put you first.

    And since I doubt the 3 of you will be doing a threesome relationship, that just means one thing... He may have to pick ... and if he's this close to her, it probably won't be you.

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  • crazy_asiknowit
    11 years ago

    tell him to leave his "friend" or else leave you

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  • mysteriouslover96
    12 years ago

    I know alot of guys that do thst but r faithful to ther gf.

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  • MrsBailey9
    12 years ago

    What? Hmmm yeah what Angel said.

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  • thebuddah
    12 years ago

    Angel just gave you the best advice ever!!!

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    I'm not sure I understood this but are you saying that you know that soon this guy will be your boyfriend yet he has a friend with benefits? If that's the case...forget it. You're not even dating yet and she's causing trouble. Who's to say he'll stop fooling around with her once you two are an item? If I got this all wrong....shhh I was never here.

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