Friends, open, honest, mean, rude, girl, boy

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Simply, I can't express myself in anyway except rudeness. In friendships, I push them away, and eventually do things so they will hate me. And Instead of being sweet and kind when I like someone, the momment I find out they have might, do have similar feelings I back off and wont let them, or anyone for that matter. I have a constant battle between telling to much and not enough. Is that Normal?

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Based on 41 votes (22 yes)
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  • Chillpill
    12 years ago

    It sounds like you feel the need to be in total control of the way your relationships progress. My guess is that the main reason for this is insecurity. You're rude and treat others badly to preemptively lower their expectations of you. You're also worried they'll discover things about you they won't like. Then you reject them before they can abandon you. My suggestion would be to work on your self-esteem so that you'll feel better about yourself and worthy of being liked for who you really are, warts and all.

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  • ImJustThatBored
    12 years ago

    I'm the exact same way. I hurt my friends before they hurt me and I have no idea why. Usually I actually like the person. But I always pick apart the bad things and dwell on them. And when someone likes me and I like them back the closer and closer the get the more and more I push back when I really like them. I try not to but I do. It's good to know I'm not crazy...

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    You need to make a few close friends by sucking them off.
    Then they will make exceptions for your behavior because they want to cum in your mouth.

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    Hm . this is intresting not sure how reply .

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    maybe it goes back a long way to when you were little

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  • Tomoke
    12 years ago

    Puberty? Maybe it's just a fase!

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  • EveningOwl
    12 years ago

    If I could I would. And I doubt I'd be asking randoms, on the internet. I generally an honest person, so the question is can you be honest with me and tell me why i do it?

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  • howaminotmyself
    12 years ago

    It isn't a matter of whether it is normal or not. Ask yourself why you do this, can you be honest with yourself?

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