Friends... :(

Basically, My "friends" are always on and off, and I get left out of things, and Im not sure what do do, because they are the only people that have ever wanted to be my friends, and now there ditching me, and Its really obvs. what to do?!

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  • Synopsis

    Well, they are not very good friends if they are leaving you out. Ask them if you can join in on their activities, and if they say no, ask them why. Otherwise they are not worth considering to be your friends.

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  • Wendell

    Seinfeld...:(
    Everybody Loves Raymond... :(

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  • Same here. It can get depressing.

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  • randomjelly

    Find new...REAL...friends. It's best to cut the ties now.

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  • ilikeexspiredmilk

    i think you should cut your self or crash your parents car into your friends there house or beat the shit out of them intill they notice how much there being ass holes to you (and if your woundering why you should beat the shit out of your parents because i bet thouse are your only friends!)

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  • emomazing

    this hapens to me all the time mi friends are just like me and i always try to orginize trips and stuff but they always do watever i wanted to do without me so yeah

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  • I agree with comments above. Also, are there a few of these friends who you think you have more in common with and could cultivate a closer and more personal friendship?

    Its one thing to be part of a group. But groups can be fickle. Its better to also have a couple friends within ( or outside) that group who you are close to/trust/hang out with/whatever.

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  • Jim_Pfoss

    Sound like you are being too passive. Take the lead and organize some activities where you can choose who to include and who to "leave out."

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