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So I have a really good friend who is a lesbian and i have a really wonderful boyfriend. But i just recently found out that my friend likes me... WHAT SHOULD I DOO!!! please help me.
Shouldn't be weird. She is still the same person you have always known. Treat her the same as you always do. You need to calm down. People like people all the time. It doesn't mean you have to do anything about it. It just happens. I mean if she approaches you about it, you can simply say I respect and value our friendship, and I can only hope you feel the same and will respect my feelings and my relationship with my bf who I deeply care about. It may never even come up. Either way, no reason to treat a good friend differently.
^ exactly. If you're not gay or bi there is no issue. If you are in a happy relationship...then again...no issue.
Umm not clear about whether there really is any decision to be made here. You are happy and in a relationship...so what if someone likes you. Someone will always crush on you when you are taken. What's the hang up you are having? Are you into them both? Or are you wanting advice how to tell your lesbian friend you aren't into her?