Friend keeps giving mixed messages about experimenting with me

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Heres my Story sorry its long,
I've known this guy for 6 years and we was best friends when we was 15 one day we was watching porn(bj scene)(i know naughty)i asked is he wanted to try it which he said "maybe tomorrow i gota go" all night we sent texts about him not been sure and w/e and in the morning my bad read my texts and banned me from seeing him... only time we spoke after that was on facebook.

Over the past 4 years iv told him how im BI and i like him and hes told me hes straight and hes had girlfriends but recently he sent me a message out of the blue (this is the facebook convo):

Him> how are ya? ive been thinking about what u said, could i sleep over or something
Me> Sure when was you thinking?

Him> whenever
Me> Ok cool well anytimes good for me except this week house is upside down atm lol

Him> so i can't tonight
Me> No place to sleep no spare beds o.0
Me> Both unmade with tones of stuff on lol

Him> im not fussy i won't be sleepin much
Him> sorry i feel bad now

Me> Oh lol why feel bad?? it's just not ideal tonight thats all be to much messing to shift everything

Him> ok man, another time. well at least you know im taking up that offer
Me> Which offers that lol

Him> u know, careful my bros here
Me> oooo defo looking forward to it then

Him> haha, hopefully i don't change my mind
Me> i hope you dont

Him> haha

Him> goin on fifa gtg cya

Him > mum pffff

Me >It should be ok wed night if your up for it then. Not sure what time ill be home but shouldn't be to late

Him >ok, i just feel bad if i do this
Me > Why feel bad?
Me > I mean I understand if you've changed your mind

Him> okay, i might sleep but non of that sorry
Me > K no worries lol what was with the sudden change of mind anyhow?

Him > tbh i dont know, i thought that myself
Me > Obviously your subconscious is wanting to...

Him> maybe, just experimenting but if i cant bring myself to do it now i never can
Me>Always time your in the same boat as me

Him> haha
Me > Ill message you wed night then when im free?

Him> ok man sure, gaming night, like old times XD

How am i supposed to take this and is it natural for him to playing this mind games im so confused to whether i should try make a move or not and i don't know how i would.

Any help on what i should do would be nice

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  • byebicurious
    9 years ago

    I think he wants to have some fun but is shy. He seems to need to work up to it. The best way is to have him over, relax and move slow. Don't talk about it, just accidently brush by his cock, rub his leg. Take control, he will not stop you I am sure. It will happen. Good luck

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    • Cypherix55
      9 years ago

      Thanks its nice to know someone elses look on it. Il see how it plays out

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  • Brownblowout
    8 years ago

    Tldr

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  • Gspyder
    9 years ago

    If you can ever get him to sleep over just go straight ahead and start sucking his dick. Don't give him time to think about it lol. He wants to try it

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    • Cypherix55
      9 years ago

      Got him to finally stay over pulled an allnighter nothin happened I kept trying to get him to talk about it but he allways avoided it and I was to scared to make a move incase it would ruin our friendship :(

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  • derpyderp
    9 years ago

    Are you a girl? Sorry if I missed it...

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    • Cypherix55
      9 years ago

      Were both guys im bi hes supposedly 100% straight though now im guessing thats not the case

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      • derpyderp
        9 years ago

        OK, that's cool. Your post implied you were a guy but I wanted to be sure...

        He's obviously curious but questioning himself which is fair enough IMO (as a straight guy)
        It's not really fair for him to lead you on but at the same time he's probably going fucking crazy with conflicting thoughts, which you should surely understand?
        It's a huge thing that once it's happened he can never take back...

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        • Cypherix55
          9 years ago

          Update I got this message today

          i cant do it, it wont be the same, we would both feel terrible and it wont feel right. we can stay friends but it wont be the same as before

          Again hes backing off :(

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