Four years later, dna test in progress, is it normal to be mad now??

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Okay so my daugters father and I were working on our relationship. We were doing pretty well, and a lot better than we have in a long time. Well some girl comes back from his past and says her daughter is his... Her little girl is two days younger than our daughter. He admits to being with her, but says it was right before he and I. Her baby was one week early and mine was two weeks early. I feel betrayed in so many ways, not to mention hurt by the fact that I will have to share him with another family now. However, I've decided to have nothing to do with him until I find out if the results are positive. Is it normal to let this relationship go, even tho it was 4 years ago when it happened.

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  • pyt1985
    13 years ago

    He's not the dad!!!!!! Whew!!!!

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    • BoredGuy
      13 years ago

      WOW i really wanted to know what happened to this story, hehe.

      Nice and good luck :)

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      • pyt1985
        13 years ago

        thanks a bunch...

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  • pyt1985
    13 years ago

    Thank you!

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  • pyt1985
    13 years ago

    Mando im worried about the latter....

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  • pyt1985
    13 years ago

    Our kids are 2 days apart. Both born in the same year. My daughter is the older of the two. So some two timing was definitely going on.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    Well technically, he didn't cheat?

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  • pyt1985
    13 years ago

    Thanks everybody. The test is supposed to be back sometime tomorrow. But i've already stopped talking to him as much because when i do, i think/stress about the situation & it makes me sad.. And he's not being very considerate of the fact that im hurt by all of this. The other day he said, "gosh, u act like this kind of stuff dnt happen all the time". So he's just making it even worse.

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  • gardenbug
    13 years ago

    You're right to be mad but take it one day at a time and wait for the DNA results.

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  • Riker300
    13 years ago

    Tough situation indeed. It will be impossible for you to really build a committed relationship with him until the facts of the matter are clear. 'Some peope get there kicks stomping on a dream'. Maybe she is crazy and jealous. Maybe he is her child's father. 50/50 chance it seems.

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  • one_guy
    13 years ago

    Tough situation. Ask yourself if you want to let him go though. And at the least let him see his daughter Like posted before. And very smart move to do a paternity test. Good luck!

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    Okay this situation is a little touchy...

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