Found out my boyfriend is bi sexual....

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So ugh..ya. Found out today that my boyfiend is bi-sexual. He didnt tell me himself. I found out through a conversation we were having with some other people. It came up in a remark and i was like are you serious? He looked all innocent, he thought i already knew. Definitely DID NOT. I dont have anything against gays or whatever. It doesnt bother me. What bothers me is that he did not tell me himself. You know, before things got serious and we had sex! I dont know...something about my situation bothers me. Should I be stressed or just calm down? Who the hell does not tell the person they are dating that they are bi-sexual???? Even if they THOUGHT they already knew. What if he decides he likes guys better? There are obvious signs now that i look back(that he is not completely straight). Anyways that is the end of my rant. I dont know what to think anymore. Someone tell me what to think! This can't be normal!

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    It doesn't make a difference. Most girls seem to go through a phase where they play with same-sex relationships. If you'd ever had a thing with a girl, would you suspect it'd throw him into a panic? Probably not. So why is it different for him?

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  • lifeismagic
    13 years ago

    Thanks for the feedback! I dont have a problem with it and yes i went through the curiosity phase. I guess it just kinda took me off guard because it was not expected. Not expected from him of all people. Anyways im sure a chat will clear things up. My appologies for the rant.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ^ you just completely said everything I was thinking

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  • cheesey_jelly
    13 years ago

    Hey, chill. No need to worry. He didn't mean you any harm. Maybe you should stop to think about what he might be feeling: he might have been too embarrassed to tell you or maybe thought if he told you then you would dump him. Maybe he honestly thought he had told you or you knew. Just remember, he loves YOU not some other girl or dude. So just relax and maybe you could talk to him about it. Hope I helped xx :)

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    • johnho
      9 years ago

      Exactly good point. It could be embarrass for a guy to admit he has feelings for both sexes. You even said as you looked back there were signs that he is not completely straight. Do you see(accept) him for who he is or who you want him to be?

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Doesn't matter if he was embarassed. That's something you don't keep from the person you are dating. Like me, it wouldn't bother me too much if I found out my man liked men too but if he didn't tell me and I found out way later if be pissed that he didn't trust me enough to tell me.

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  • cheesey_jelly
    13 years ago

    Haha no worries. We all have our rants :)

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