Foreplay or main course?

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When people use the words "foreplay" versus "sex" / main course / main event...I am often confused and therefore I am interested in your opinion on this distinction.

Let´s have an example, if you say: "People should not neglect foreplay before the main course." or "From time to time, it is good to have sex without long foreplay." or "You shouldn´t skip foreplay - it can enhance your enjoyment from the main event if you pay attention to foreplay"....which phase does ORAL SEX belong to?
Foreplay or main course?

I´m male - it is a part of foreplay 12
I´m male - it is a part of main course 3
I´m female - it is a part of foreplay 9
I´m female - it is a part of main course 4
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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    Different sexual acts mean different things to different people. Plus you can combine more than one act at the same time. Sex is a diverting activity but also such a personal one that you can't really place solid definitions on things like "main course".

    Some of the things I'd class as a main course, other people might class as a necessarily evil just to make sure they get a starter (or a dessert).

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    i'm female and it's part of foreplay

    although for me it's not mandatory to have, it's just one of the many ways that help get me prepared for penetration.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    "I'm male and IDGAF!"

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    Oral sex as a foreplay? Then if a man takes a prostitute into his car and pays her for a blowjob, then, basically, he is paying for foreplay. At least we can see that there are still men who love foreplay, some of them are even eager to pay for it:) I think this kind of sex business should be supported more and more because it teaches men to appreciate the value of foreplay:)

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