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My girlfriend CLAIMS to NOT see any good looking guys. According to her, when she looks at guys she NEVER decides consciously if the guy is good looking or not. I say that is impossible to do. When I look at a woman, the very first thought to me is...is she attractive our not. So, is my girlfriend full of crap?
| Yes, she is a liar. It is impossible to do that. | 91 | |
| No, I do that too. It is possible. | 52 | |
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Girls are WAY LESS VISUAL than men. An ugly guy with confidence will always be much more attractive to girls than a good-looking unconfident guy.
confidence, not personality. READ.
plenty of asshole guys with not much of a personality that are still a chick magnets
I dated a guy with alot of confidence but he was a moron and it ended up that his confidence was due to insecurity -
If your a talented guy, in my experience you have personality - cockiness usually doenst add up. Confidence is nice, so long as its not cocky and its true (nothing like dissapointment) - I prefer Talented guys that are modest about their talents - those are the guys who understand that there is always room for improvement and only get better
I agree, I go for the personality and looks equally. If a guy is attractive, but not confident, I would only be physically attracted to him, and he would have just as much of a chance as the guy who is unattractive, but confident, which is not that high.
maybe the good looking non-confident guy just doesnt have anything to prove - he doesnt need to rub it in your face
Some guys look physically attractive, until they open their mouths. Same with ladies.
In general though, it's not something that I pay a lot of attention to, probably because I'm not single and not looking for a potential mate.
It's definitely possible!! I don't "rate" every guy's looks. I might take notice if someone is EXTREMELY attractive or, conversely, EXTREMELY unattractive to me, but for the most part, I don't pay any mind to a guy's looks since I've been with my husband.
Women don't really picture themselves having sex with every guy they come across like men do with women.
I think that when you look at a guy you'll know right away if he's good looking or not... but the difference is you might not be attracted to him. I might see a great looking guy out, chat with him but not be attracted. Looks is the first thing your going to notice, but personality is what really counts in the end.
I'm the same way as your gf. My bf doesn't believe me either. We aren't wired the same way as you guys. We don't automatically think about looks, I think more of personality. I look at the way they hold themselves and the way they act. I think about who they could be, I don't think whether or not their physically attractive.
My mom told me that after I'd get married, men would have no faces! I thought this was the strangest thing I'd ever heard - until I got married.
If your girlfriend is 100% committed to you, I'd say she doesn't actually 'see' other guys. Guys have laughed at me coz I can sit and talk to them all night, and if they cover their faces, I can't even tell them the colour of their eyes.
I have no interest in what other men look like so don't even take time to analyse if they are good looking or not. There is one guy who is extremely handsome and this was pointed out to me by my friend - and yes I had to agree, but I'm still not interested in him either. I just don't care what they look like, coz they're not for me, I'd rather join in the fun with them. My husband knows I can't even recognise the same guy the next day so can trust me 100%.
It takes all sorts to make a world so maybe she's just like me - strange but true!
she said never? That is bullsiht.
No person can deny a persons attractiveness, whether it be male or female. Your girl does it, but she might not do it as much as you or often, but she still does it.
I know i do. Ill deny it to my boyfriend, so the same thing ur girl tells you, i tell my boyfriend. were lying. Its impossible to not notice if a guy is buff and hunkalicious, we might not admit it, but we notice a persons attractiveness, even for half a second we do it.
we might not drool on it and chase skirts like u guys, but the thought is there "damn that guy is hot"
LOL
confidence without personality is like a juice without taste ... we must consider personality before ...but who can come to know this at first sight obviously we just have to look at style the beauty and other things to have an overview..
and this is totally ridiculous how one can just avoid looking at the opposite sex its like eyes role to that place it self... ......
She is lying.I am married and have 3 kids. I love my husband and I would be lying if I said that I don't look. I look but don't touch. I am not dead. At the end of the night, who I end up going to bed is with my husband. I am sure guys are the same way.
I Usually like guys who have a penis and are not in a wheelchair unless they have a handicap parking permit then we can park closer to the mall.
I am pansexual. Pansexuals are attracted more to personality than looks. 99% of the time I don't look twice at anyone just because they're good looking. So yes, its possible.
Depends how committed she is to you, I'd say it is a bit unlikely, I don't 'rate' every guy I see but I can tell when guys are good looking
I'd definitely notice the difference (although taste is ofc subjective). When I used to temp in offices with male eye candy, I found that it brightened up my work day a little.