For the gentlemen: cancelled meeting and persistent female.

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I cancelled to meet someone on the only weekend he was in the country. I told him that I wouldn't be able to meet him weeks earlier and never got a reply. Aggressive as I am, I messaged him once more after 13 days.
How would you feel if a female persisted like this?

If you still cannot form an opinion:
Met once. Skype rarely. Pretty mutual interest.

She is desperate. 2
She is pathetic. 1
She is creepy. 0
She can't move on. 2
None of the above. Please note in the comments. 10
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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    I don't see a problem with it if he didn't reply. It would have been a good courtesy of him to have replied so you know that he at least for the message.

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  • [email protected]
    11 years ago

    If it was worth it I would'nt mind.

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    I do not see how you are being persistent. I can understand if you are peeved and it would be awkward if he all a sudden messaged you on the day and says to you "Hey, you are coming today right? It is rude he is ignoring you. You just want him to assure you that he gets the message. He is not polite enough to respond. I had people do this to me and I hate it.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Seems fair, there was a post a few days ago with the situation reversed M-F.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Where can I find it?

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      • Justsomejerk
        11 years ago

        The title was something like is it normal for a woman to do this?

        I have terrible trouble trying to find stories on here so im afraid I can't be more helpful.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          It seems it has probably been deleted. Thank you for giving me a clue to it though.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    I don't think that's massively persistent. Not compared to some of the things I've experienced, anyway.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Well if you cancelled it, BUT are continuing to message him its probably a little strange, speaking as a guy I wouldnt mind much if a female cancelled with me (that is if I DIDNT go far out of my way), but I would find it strange if she was trying to contact me afterwards for 13 STRAIGHT days without an answer.

    You should have sent a couple messages, maybe 3, then left it alone.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      No, I meant I left it for 13 days then messaged him once more.
      Thank you though, I edited the poll to make that clearer.

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        One extra message after 13 days of not hearing from him isnt anything strange or peculiar to do. Though I wouldnt bother anymore with it if I were you.

        It also doesnt seem as if there is much of a mutual interest from you or him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    she sounds determined and will get her way :)

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