For step daughters to ask questions about sexuality?

My step daughter is 11yo almost 12. For the past month she has began asking me a lot of sexual based questions. At first i thought it may be normal but the questions have become prety personal and she only asks when no body else is around. She askes questions like if she is atractive, how long it will take for her breast to come in, but the back breaker was the night she asked me what a boys pee pees look like. I said not to wory about it she will know when the time is right. She responded by asking if she could see mine. NO I DID NOT SHOW HER! Is this some thing little girls usualy do? Do I break confidense and tell her mom or what here? Will this just pass on its own?

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  • howaminotmyself

    Normal questions of an adolescent. If you act like it is weird she will get a very fucked up idea as to what sexuality is. These are always awkward questions. If you are not comfortable answering, you meed to send her to her mother and grow up. You sound like a kid yourself. And certainly not mature enough to be having sex yourself. Who fucking uses the word pee pee? She deserves real answers to her questions and not awkwardness.

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  • Arm0se

    Tell her mother.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Hell yeah, rat her little ass out! I don't think it's normal for her to be asking you this stuff.

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    • Daddy_1369

      Yea plus its really concerning why would she be asking these things and why the interest.

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  • regisphilbin

    I think the best way to teach her would be to show her.

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  • MarieWantsIt

    If this is real, you are in a dangerous position. Don't ever be alone with her

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  • OtherSide

    Here's a phrase that saves parents a bunch of embarrassment and effort.

    Repeat after me: "Just google it, kid."

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  • nobodyspecial

    i would answer her questions to the best of my ability, you never know where she would go to get those questions answered!

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    • Dad

      Yeah I know, like going to her actual parents and asking?

      Its best you refer children that are not your own to their parents. Even teachers must ask permission from parents if a child (student in this case) is allowed to be educated about sex.

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  • abigdick

    If she is asking, she will get an answer from somebody. If not you, who? Sounds like her mother is not an option or she would be asking her in the first place. You better giving her answers.

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  • Karmasbitch

    Check out her internets search history, it would be hilarious.

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    • Karmasbitch

      That was a stupid thing to say. I'm giving you the finger.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Bitches be triffling.

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        • Karmasbitch

          It's a hard life for a pimp.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Tryin ta git tha money fo da rent...

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  • Anonymous200

    I think the first few sentences would have been better suited for her mom (though not that unusual), but then I read ahead and no, it's not normal. Yes, you should tell her mother. Its natural for a child to be curious about sex and puberty, but it isn't normal to want to see your father's junk.
    You two need to have a discussion with each other and then sit down and have a talk with her. At best, she has skewed perceptions of healthy sexuality and needs to be guided on what's appropriate. At worst, someone might be abusing her, and you as a parent need to know these things to protect her.

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  • denden61

    I have had the same experience at the same time a good close friend was going through the same thing in his life, exactly the same situation and we would talk about it every day.
    fortunately we finally got past the ordeal with great results and in fact today everyone involved are grown, successful, happy and united.
    Starting with me. Before I married I married my high school sweetheart that I met when we were 14 yo. She was the provoker, the teaser and the sexually advanced girl I ever met. We even got together and skipped school to meet at her parents home, all planed by her of course. this was the day we will finally break the ice. Never happened, I was big and she couldn't handle it and that was it. I moved on and she finally married at eighteen and virgin.
    12 years later we met again and she was separated and getting divorced and had a beautiful 3 yo daughter. We got together and married a year later.
    I raised this little girl like she was my own and my wife and I had a very sexually active sex life. Sometimes I thought my wife was a nymphomaniac. During many years her daughter would walk in on us while having sex, and sometimes we were doing really kinky shit, Toys, Bondage, crazy positions and all over the house. At first I started getting a little annoyed and felt disrespected, feeling like she was trying to cause a disruption in our relation because I was not her real father and her mom would laugh and find it cute.
    One day when I come out of the shower I find my wife in an exotic position playing with herself, on purpose to surprise me. I started playing with myself in response to her foreplay. All of a sudden while I'm sitting on the toilet lid but naked stroking a full erection her now 13 yo daughter walks in nonchalant and stands in front of me and says; Oh, excuse me". Her mother cracks up and thinks it's funny and I lost it, I was pissed. Her mother quickly responded by calling her back in the room and tells me to stop yelling at her and understand that it's normal at her age. She starts telling her daughter and I that she was just as curious as her and even worse cause she would even try to touch. After calming me down and getting her embarrassed daughter to listen to her her child hood stories I'm more excited than ever. She said things about her childhood and adolescent days that I haven't ever known about. She than says; look let her get over her curiosity, after all better now than with a stranger. My wife pulls the sheets off me and exposes What has to be the most extreme erection I have ever experienced and tells her to grab it. After very little encouragement she did.
    In a way this kind of opened Pandora's box because the curiosity continued but only as long as I acted as if I didn't notice and she would not feel embarrassed it was only look and don't touch. My step daughter and I established an open respectful very confident relation and I became her best friend and mentor. She had more confidence in talking openly with me than anyone else and most of the time her thoughts and curiosity were very surprising and she is by no means confused or naive. This goes to show, don't ever underestimate an adolescents intelligence or limits to there innocence. If you can get to know them well enough to gain complete confidence they will blow your mind and perhaps even teach you something new. I taught her everything she wanted to know and satisfied all her curiosities without the stigma that society labels as perverted. The most important thing I taught her was how to be responsible and make smart decisions. We always encouraged her to stay pure but never prohibited it, only educate her and make her feel confident in being open and honest with her parents. We will only give you good advise and support and look out for her well being and happiness
    One thing I close in saying is, the man that she chooses to marry will be the happiest man on earth. She married a great man and was virgin on there honeymoon thanks to daddy.

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  • pulse-punch

    She wants your dick, plain and simple. Why else would she ask YOU?

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  • JD777

    Dude, you're on a mighty slippery slope. Tell her Mom (your partner!). If you take this further and the kids blabs what you say/do (what 12 year olds do best), you could be in serious hot water.

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  • chuy2

    First it normal for all kids to ask questions like this second you should tell her mom to talk to her

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  • mystery7

    Some time ago in a similar situation my ex girlfriends 12 year old daughter had the same kind of curiosity, asking to see what I had in there, while at the same time trying to undo my jeans. I had to stop her of course.

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  • borntobeme

    I believe the post is fake! Today, with anybody, any where, having some sort of access to computors, and smart phones, can easily ask 'google' or 'bing' these four little words. "Pictures of mans penis", and will have untold amount of pics to visualize, compete with full descriptions.

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    • What would be the point of writing a fake post like this one? That wouldn't make sense.

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