For someone that is going thru a divorce to treat me like he did her?

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My boyfriend is going thru a divorce and a custody battle and normally we get along real well, I been the one there for him, helping him (he had to be his own attorney) and he hadn't got alot of sleep in the past 3 days(i got more than he did) we went to the bed put on a movie and I was messing with him being cute and laying on him, kissing him, touching him. i guess bugging him bad and he flipped the @$@%T^&!! out on me, pushing me off him telling me to get out of the room-i started crying and he didn't care-you could tell he hurt my feelings so bad-I got up, accidently knocked the laptop over, he jumped up and called me a bitch and threw this table and it broke(my laptop table) I got dressed and and went to leave and he said oh so now your leaving?! i said yeah, you told me get out. i shut the bedroom door and said, i hope you didnt treat your kids like that-that was sooo mean and scary. literally-i was shaking for 20 minutes after i left. now i gotta go back home cause it's been 4 hours and i have nothing to do in the streets but i dont even know what to say-i dont want to fight but damn he could of been alot better to me, handled that completly different. I dont deserve that!! i dont know what to do. anyone? oh and nothing happened to the laptop.

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  • theytookthisone
    12 years ago

    Lol seriously? Everyone is saying this is normal?

    I don't think its normal, he sounds like his on the verge of being abusive. I would say leave him for the better. Its no excuse that he is going through a divorce, he should not be taking his anger out on you. It's youre choice though obviously, so if you want to stay with an abusive asshole so be it.

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  • Nitti
    13 years ago

    Im not sure if its normal by the way.

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  • tampabayallstar
    14 years ago

    This is guy is a jerk. Your character is not much better.... Dating a married man??

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    • IwantYou
      11 years ago

      errm its normal to date someone while they are divorcing... I know tons of ppl that date even though they r getting divorced

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  • weshitude
    14 years ago

    I kinda understand the way he's behaving! sometimes when i'm really upset my gf keeps bugging me too! i know she does it to cheer me up but it makes me really angry and i have fantaisies about ripping her head off!! i just get away from her so i won't do anything i'll regret!

    sometimes all he needs to know is that u're there for him. don't overdo it

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    • bran5446lv
      14 years ago

      your right. he says that.

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  • yohansen
    14 years ago

    You got to be kidding!! No guy should treat his girl that way no matter what they're going through. No wonder he's divorcing. And you're next??

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  • Cbg
    13 years ago

    Yes that is normal. It sure ain't nice though. Buy being stressed ain't easy to deal with. I would explain to him how bad it hurt you. If you all make up then yay for u. If not then the bastard was not worth it!

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  • bran5446lv
    14 years ago

    Thank you. Thank you. I'm gonna go try harder, he is worth it.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    go home and make up.

    everyone goes nuts during a divorce and custody battle even when they have an attorney.

    just know that it is the pressure of the event that he is reacting to, not you.

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