For my dad to be mad at me over this

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First off me and my dad has bought a house together since neither of us could afford one alone, I pay 400 a month and he pays 480. he makes a bit more than me. Me and my mom don't get along, and he don't get along with her either but he keeps inviting her over and I told him today look Im not cool with that she comes over and moves my shit around and is abusive to my cat and says mean things about my cleaning abilities and he got pissed off at me said I don't get to just say who can or cant come over so I said fine then lets try to make a compromise cause right now I am getting zero say in it and im not okay with it and he said well until you are paying a extra forty a month then maybe we can talk about it! like really? if it wasn't for me being here he would still be living with his mom.. now since our 'fight' hes giving me the silent treatment which I don't really care but the whole thing is so freaking stupid and I don't feel like I deserve that.. what do you think

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    is there a way you could come up with an extra $40 a month? your story makes me mad especially the cat and moving your stuff and talking shit about you..

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I'd find a girl I and have her come visit you, telling her to treat your dad's shit just like your mom does yours. Give him a taste of his own medicine.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    9 years ago

    Your Dad sounds like a fucking dick. You pay close to half the rent for the house and you deserve a say. Technically and legally you own your share of the house, whichever share you claim. You leaving means he can't afford rent. No wonder he couldn't move out of his Mom's place, I doubt any roommate would tolerate that box of wanker in their home.

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  • snowflake4m
    7 years ago

    Your mother sounds horrible. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. No, it is not fair for him to be mad over this. You asked for a compromise, not to have everything your way. You also pay rent. Even if you didn't pay any rent at all, your mother has no right whatsoever to abuse your cat or disrespect your belongings. She needs help. Of the professional kind. I hope you find a resolution to this, for your sake. Again, I'm so sorry you are dealing with two immature parents. I grew up in an abusive home and I have a lot of sympathy for you.

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  • kat10
    7 years ago

    you are paying monthly in that case you have the rights to set off rules just like your dad does. I would say sit down with him and come up with an agreement and work things out. you have the right to be herd and make rules.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Both of your folks sound messed up to me.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    $880 a month! Is that rent or Mortgage?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      It's mortgage

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    Ur dad is ur roommate now. U gotta just let him do his thing, have who he wants over, and ignore it as best u can, otherwise he is gonna cock block u out of spite next time u bring someone home

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