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My boyfriend admited to me that if occasionally there's some girl he finds cute, he can search for her on facebook, to see her facebook pictures because he thinks she's cute.
Is it normal? And why do you guys actually do this?
A simple way to test if it's acceptable in your own particular relationship is to reverse the roles. How would he like it if you did the exact same thing? Regardless of the answer to this question, if it makes you feel uncomfortable then you need to communicate this to him and the reason why. But also let him know you appreciate his honesty in telling you about it.
It could be a commonly occurring behavior among boys who are not in relationships, but I think most of them would stop once they had a girlfriend to focus their adoration on.
No, not normal, not healthy for your relationship and not very mature.
Dump this one; he's going to hurt you.
My only doubt is: Is there any chance that there are boys/men that DON'T do this? Honestly, I'm "ok" with porn, watching pictures of celebreties or random girls on the internet... but searching for specific girls he's attracted to in real life, it just seems a bit weird, that's why I'd really like to read more honest opinions
Its not right i mean at that point its like hes looking for a nother girl. As a female i think its okay for my guy to look at other girls in person because hey we are all human, its natural to look at a girl if she has ass and tits all over but its what the looker does with that important. But i wholeheartedly love and trust my boyfriend with my life because hes a good person. Your guy on the other hand... no real way of knowing unless you check his facebook which is a bit off limits, but ask him to talk and ask to see his facebook messages. If he refuses than he has something to hide. So dont keep a leash on him at all but you know, look out for yourself. No one here wants you to get heart broken.