Flirting message on facebook.

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Hey, so my missus goes through my phone,my emails, opens my mail etc. Anyway she gets on my facebook the other day and Finds messages I sent to a girl that works at a roadhouse near where I work.
They were just friendly messages to a nice person. My missus accuses me of trying to hook up behind her back and says now doesn't trust me.

Is this normal and who is in the wrong here?

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Based on 52 votes (27 yes)

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VioletTrees

11 years ago

Your wife shouldn't be logging into your facebook and looking through your things. That's really controlling and unhealthy.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Exactly my point, she is always doing it. It makes me sad to think anyone can get kicks from it.
  
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  - percyboy90
    
    11 years ago
    
    You should have more respect for your wife, why have you obtained contact details and been messaging a woman who works near you if you know your wife wouldn't like it?
    
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    - Coolieo
      
      11 years ago
      
      He probably didn't know his wife wouldn't like it. Plus, he said that they were just nice messages to a nice person.
      
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      - strangethingshappen
        
        7 years ago
        
        In a guys world , nice= flirting
        
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  - VioletTrees
    
    11 years ago
    
    Change your facebook password, and don't tell her what it is.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      11 years ago
      
      Done that many times. Can't change passwords on mailthough.Why are women evil? And wrong?
      
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      - VioletTrees
        
        11 years ago
        
        I'm a woman.
        
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fullhouse

11 years ago

I think your trying to find a way out or something,are you not interested in your marriage anymore?
your wife is insecure, reassure her! Who right or wrong is a dark n lonely road..

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NeuroNeptunian

11 years ago

I do that to my husband but that's so I can post awesome compliments to myself in his statuses. Sometimes I go through his phone because he always takes interesting pictures like the bright yellow foot high lifted Cadillac DeVille. I don't really care if he talks to other women. Your wife sounds insecure.

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imkindofalady

11 years ago

If you think your wife's evil and wrong, why are you even with her? Marriage is about love, trust and respect and if you don't have those three things- trust and respect are pretty clearly out of the picture- then why waste time with someone you don't love? If you love the girl, you'll respect how she feels and try to talk it out with her so that you both end up happy.
I really hope it works out for you.

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DollyBoots

11 years ago

Your a fucking asshole!!! How could you do that to your wife!!!!)':

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Avant-Garde

11 years ago

Your wife has no right to go through your things. Change your password and don't tell her.

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dappled

11 years ago

If you approach this situation trying to prove who is right and who is wrong, you don't stand much chance of making it any better.

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Crafty

8 years ago

You wanted to bang her and got mad u got caught. Your wife felt something was off and u validated it

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