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Okay so I'm normal I guess but it doesn't matter if the guy is ass ugly or really hot but I can't help but be touchy and flirty, even if my bestfriend is dating them or if I'm taken! Help!
I'm exactly like that. I can't help it. And to the other comments yeah it can be hoeish and we all know so why even say it? That's rude. And yeah if you realize your doing it just restrain from it and you may be able to stop. That's what I do:)
judas could not have said it any better...
anyways, flirting is normal and okay, flirting in my workplace (im a chef) happens alot, theres alot of grab ass but its usually becuase we all work in such a weird enviroment. long hours, hot, male dominated
I flirt with my guy friends but never to the point where im grabbing all over them, its more or less just sex jokes/talk.
flirting with everyone just because you can, is very ho-ish. and you only do it because you like the atention.
if i were ur boyfriend and you were off flirting with every guy in sight. id dump your ass on the spot. so try to work on your self esteam and stop relying on flirting to make yourself feel pretty.
Your problem is an external locus of self-esteem. Getting a positive response from the opposite sex makes you feel good about yourself.
The problem is, this is shallow and unsustainable. You need better reasons for self-pride.
Not everyone is like you, but it's not like being a flirt is horrible. Most people on the receiving end probably like it.
Just be careful. You never know if someone will get the wrong idea about you and you could get yourself into a bad situation.
If you want to change, watch people who don't flirt and try to mimic their behavior around other people.
Get ur flirt on girl!! I love 2 c people flirt,nothing wrong with it,we only live once!!!