First time sex, guy guy

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I want to have sex with my boy friend and he is a first timer, so what do I need to do to be able make sure that he is okay.

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  • dom180
    9 years ago

    Communicate openly and start slowly.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      How would I start ,as I have had sex before, and yet it's different when I is as the teach and he is as learning.

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      • dom180
        9 years ago

        How much do you both know already? Does he have any sex education at all?

        First you ask him if he wants to have sex. If he says yes you both get your clothes off and start kissing each other.

        I feel like I'm directing a porno :/

        Communicate a lot. There are a lot of ways to have sex. Ask him a lot what he wants and what feels good.

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  • borntobeme
    9 years ago

    I agree with all of you responders. A good was to start is take shower together, and play. Have fun!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      So, your saying getting in the mood is the key?

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  • FlameDragoon
    9 years ago

    you could try to set the mood by watching porn together & asking each other any questions that pop up at the time

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      That's a great Idea, thank you

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  • johnho
    9 years ago

    Exactly, best talk to each other going in, set boundaries, what goes, what won't fly and have fun!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Maybe I is just over thinking it and should let things take their course.

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      • johnho
        9 years ago

        You can over think it, not sure your age, you didn't mention. If you are of age you should maybe have a drink or a joint? Relax. Sit there talk be at ease with each other. Are you the aggressive on in the relation? Maybe rub his back. Have him lay down, take his shirt off. Get some oil, rub his back. Have him loosen his pants, (Not take them off yet) rub the oil on his back, lower back run your hands under his pants touch his butt cheeks. I think you get the idea, I have a hard-on thinking of it then you can roll him over and do his chest, rub down to his belly into his pants.. Have fun..

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  • sugarboobs
    9 years ago

    duh!

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    don't make him nervous

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