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Okay, well me and my boyfriend have sex often.
And Ive noticed that when he's fingering or eating my p*ssy I cum more and sooner then the actual sex part. Advice?
OMG. HOW OLD ARE YOU??? DUH, you have more orgasms when everything compared to actual intercourse.
Do you know NOTHING about nerve ends and anatomy? Any of you guys here? Geez.
If you are on top, YOU control how much, what kind, and how hard and fast the 'contact' is. If you are on the bottom, you control the 'grind', but not nearly as much as he can when using only his hands...
I could tell you stories.....
Yes, its normal. When you are "fingering" and even being eaten out, there is more control of what is going on and you can tell him to do things differently. When you are having sex, it feels good but it doesn't have the same control as a "fingering."
If sex isn't getting you there or getting you there less, practice different things or finger yourself less.
Uhhh why don't you try having the actual intercourse first, you're young so you should have no problems becoming you know moist in a specific area.
Seriously though do older adults still finger and blow each other? I'm not having sex after 55 that is just gross.
I would suggest you mix a little bit of everything to get a good orgasm, something like start with a little bj and some fingering or a 69 and then when you are really turned on jump into action.